Whoa...if Juliana looks like Bowie crossed with S. Manson, even her good pictures don't really capture it. Cause that'd be cool. must see j. in person soon! And I bet Miranda from SATC is a Mile-High member. She bitched about her hair, but still.(Although she did feel insecure about not being invited to three-way, so maybe not.) Aw, Gud, I'm sorry. Every bit of happiness and peace, there, bunk.
I'm just waiting to see if I pass out. Long story.
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erikaj - Jul 27, 2005 12:12:13 pm PDT #3365 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!
Gudanov - Jul 27, 2005 12:12:44 pm PDT #3366 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
You always talk about her being angry with you, though. What sorts of things is she angry about?
Not having the emotion. Faking it doesn't really work, she can tell. There are a number of other things that have made her angry. Having to stay late at work, not hearing her correctly, not doing housework, asking what she wants for dinner, and other little things.
Topic!Cindy - Jul 27, 2005 12:15:53 pm PDT #3367 of 10001
What is even happening?
Oh, Gud. I'm so sorry. That's so hard, and I don't know how else you could handle the work thing. I mean, when you have to work, you have to work.
Does she work outside the home?
Gudanov - Jul 27, 2005 12:17:52 pm PDT #3368 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
No, she's a SAHM
Scrappy - Jul 27, 2005 12:19:51 pm PDT #3369 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Asking what she wants for dinner? I don't see what is angry-making in that.
Topic!Cindy - Jul 27, 2005 12:20:30 pm PDT #3370 of 10001
What is even happening?
I'm a sahm. Dh helps (a lot) but I don't think I get mad at him when he doesn't or can't. We mostly have an inside (me)/outside (him) split with chores (and we're both not top notch about getting things done in a timely manner, so we generally try to shut up about the other person's sins of omission). What sort of housework are you talking about?
Asking what she wants for dinner? I don't see what is angry-making in that.
Gotta agree with Robin, here. Please someone, ask me what I want for dinner.
Gudanov - Jul 27, 2005 12:21:19 pm PDT #3371 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
Asking what she wants for dinner? I don't see what is angry-making in that.
It's complicated and passive aggressive.
P.M. Marc - Jul 27, 2005 12:22:12 pm PDT #3372 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Huh. Sounds like when she gets mad, what it's about isn't what it's about, which is pretty standard. Does she have a good circle of adult friends to talk to? Did she work before she had the kidlets?
juliana - Jul 27, 2005 12:23:25 pm PDT #3373 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Yay for Calli's bits!
Why not - she'd love it. Mind, I expect everybody to load up on makeup and everybody else to buy clothes too. There might need to be some eating and drinking involved as well.
Hec is a cruel, cruel man, but I'm sure we'd suffer through. Nobly.
must see j. in person soon
Yes! Must meet erika! (Hec flatters, BTW. We love him anyway.)
Oh, Gud. I'm so sorry, sweetie. Hugs. You've got some good adive up there, and a whole lot of love.
brenda m - Jul 27, 2005 12:24:36 pm PDT #3374 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Asking what she wants for dinner? I don't see what is angry-making in that.
I don't either, but it totally rings a bell as one of those totally-non-important things that somehow becomes a big deal when there's a lot of unrelated resentment coming from somewhere. I think dinner is not the issue.