Why not - she'd love it. Mind, I expect everybody to load up on makeup and everybody else to buy clothes too. There might need to be some eating and drinking involved as well.
Pfft. You know the FIRST thing you're going to make them all do is get haircuts.
Thanks for the girly-bits~ma, y'all. The doc agrees that the problem is probably stress, although she's testing for thyroid issues just in case. And I can't tell you how much I love going to a doctor who treats me like a grown up. My weight's gone up since Mom's cancer diagnosis and treatment. I mentioned to the doc that my method of stress reduction is pretty much Ben & Jerry's based right now. And the doctor basically said that that was a relatively benign form of stress management, that I knew how the weight went on and how to take it off again, and that all in all I knew what I was doing.
If any Durham buffistas need a doctor, I can so recommend this one to you.
Yay for sane doctors and good reports!
I'm glad you have a good doctor Calli.
I'm having plenty of stress right now. I feel kind of adrift with the marriage problems.
Oh Gud, you're struggling so hard. I so hope you two get to some place where you're not, very soon.
That sounds like a good doctor, Calli. And a good stress management system.
I'm so sorry, Gud. I wish I could help in some way.
Pfft. You know the FIRST thing you're going to make them all do is get haircuts.
Pshaw. JZ and Juliana already have short hair. Ple will dabble in it occasionally when it suits her mood and Jilli is best suited to Jilli hair. I would certainly never presume to tell any of them how to express their style since they're all very good at their own style, which is what I appreciate best.
Besides I never
make
anybody do anything. Though sometimes there is the siren lure of seduction to the shorn side.
I'm sorry, Gud. I have no useful advice, having never tried marriage myself, but I hope you and Ms. Gud can get to a better place soon.
I feel like things are sort of my fault right now because when I try to do things to improve the situation I feel like I'm going through the motions rather than really having the emotion behind it and when I do that it doesn't work. Thanks for the good wishes though.