I have IE and Windows...I think my Windows Media Player is frakked. Oh well. I'll catch a tape on TV later. Sounds like we have a successful launch?

Sounds like we have a successful launch?

Yep. I mean, nothing unusual so far (but they'll go over the various footage to see if anything came off during the launch).

A woman I lived with when I first moved to New Orleans said she came from a book-free home, that all they ever had to read were magazines, if that. She went go to college, but I think that was not the family's expectation for her.

I can't imagine. Building bookcases for our ever expanding library was a regular family project. Neatly combining our love of books with our love of simple carpentry.

Book free? Except for people who are in such dire economic straits that they're struggling to put food on the table and keep a roof over their heads, I cannot understand. I know my mum grew up with very few books, because they were broke, and their father left, during the Great Depression. For her, every book is sacred, and I largely share that philosophy. I can't ever throw away a book. I can now give them away (that took work), but never throw them away.

I would not like a book free library.

I've got a bunch of read-to-pieces paperbacks that aren't going to survive the move. They're probably too battered to move at the yard sale (though a couple might). I'll probably put them in the thrift store's donation box and assuage my guilt by imagining the thrift store people as being the Philistines that tossed them out. But the thrift store has a dumpster and I don't and more room for such things.

I have to admit, I think I did all of my research during my last stint in school on line. I only went to the library to read for pleasure. However, that may be as much due to the subject matter as the times a-changing. I may well have spent much more time in the library if I was still doing History rather than Business.

So my mom called this morning, and things seem to be a little less sucky. I told her I was going to be looking for some job here to support me, because at least I'd be making some money. She of course said that's why I should come home, so I wouldn't have to keep losing money. And I said I understood that, but I was staying here. She asked me how much I would make in a lab job, and I told her it didn't matter, I just needed to make any sort of money at all. And then she went into the umpteenth "Can you really make a living as a medical writer?" bit, and I explained to her for the umpteenth time that yes, they make good money, and I was going to work my way up to become a medical science liaison, and they make six bloody figures. I told her about a position I just saw today in San Francisco, and she gave me the number of a relative of mine who works in a pharmaceutical company over there.

She asked me if I'd talked to the realtor, and I explained about not being able to break the lease and having to find a subletter. I explained it twice, and she said she still didn't understand, so I finally said, "You don't have to understand, I've got it taken care of," which is so my favorite thing I've said today.

I agreed to the ten-day vacation next week, and she mentioned checking out some of the pharmaceutical companies in North Carolina while we were there. And then she launched into a whole thing about wearing nice clothes because people judge you on your ratty clothes.

And finally, can you guess what we talked about?

I'll give you fourteen guesses, and the first thirteen don't count.

As my siblings had informed me, my parents did fear my insistence on staying here was due to a girl. I told my mom that no, that wasn't it, there were plenty of other reasons why one would want to stay here besides a girl. And then I discovered that the search for my wife had already begun. Like, there's this girl in Trinidad who's studying pharmacy or whatever, and she's smart, and that's all that matters, apparently, when finding a girl for me, and first they'll look here, and then they'll try looking in India, you can find good girls in India, and they'd prefer that I don't look, but if I do, she should be Gujarati, but see, I have to get married soon, before I'm 25, after I'm 25, it's hard to find a girl, look at all these other people older than 25 who are still single, so please be married by the time you're 25, please? I told her we'll see.

She said she'd tell my dad to book the ticket, and when she hung up, she said, "Love you," and I reciprocated, "Love you," which was weird because I don't think I'd said it in a very long while, but it's much easier to say after a conversation when neither of us is yelling or crying.

A book-free library just...doesn't make sense. I can't even imagine it.

We're a book-loving family. And I married into one, too, which was a bonus. I can't bear to part with books. One of my favorite reads as a kid was All of a Kind Family about a family at the turn of the century on the Lower East Side. Their trips to the library each week were sacred, and when their father, a junk man, came across a lot of used books that they were allowed to look through and *keep* you'd have thought they won the lottery. It was wonderful.

Happy Birthday Kat!

And go, P-C!

"You don't have to understand, I've got it taken care of," which is so my favorite thing I've said today.

Good thing to say!

She said she'd tell my dad to book the ticket, and when she hung up, she said, "Love you," and I reciprocated, "Love you," which was weird because I don't think I'd said it in a very long while, but it's much easier to say after a conversation when neither of us is yelling or crying.

Aww... that's great.

I have to get married soon, before I'm 25, after I'm 25, it's hard to find a girl, look at all these other people older than 25 who are still single, so please be married by the time you're 25, please?

Good thing I'm not her son.

I explained it twice, and she said she still didn't understand, so I finally said, "You don't have to understand, I've got it taken care of," which is so my favorite thing I've said today.

Good for you! With any luck, saying such things will become easier and easier. Also, if you haven't already, thank her effusively for giving you the phone number of the relative in SF and emphasize that this is the sort of help you can use.