P-C are your folks paying your rent? Because yes, I think their move was way overstepping, but they might feel like they have no need to pay rent for you there, since you're no longer in school there, and don't have a job there, and that if they're going to be housing you, they already have a house.
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Topic!Cindy - Jul 25, 2005 9:19:30 am PDT #2766 of 10001
What is even happening?
Polter-Cow - Jul 25, 2005 9:20:25 am PDT #2767 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Cindy, they're not paying my rent. I'm paying out of my slowly dwindling bank account.
beathen - Jul 25, 2005 9:20:43 am PDT #2768 of 10001
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.
{{P-C}}
(P.S. Don't let your parents pull this kind of crap. It'll never stop otherwise)
juliana - Jul 25, 2005 9:20:52 am PDT #2769 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
How to deal with your mom, I don't know.
I suppose sticking your fingers in your ears and yelling "LALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU OR YOUR CRAXY 'SUGGESTIONS'!!" would be counder-productive, wouldn't it?
On a serious note, I'm sorry your mom pulled that, P-C. Oy.
EpicTangent - Jul 25, 2005 9:20:59 am PDT #2770 of 10001
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Yeek, PC, way over the line, you're right to be pissed. I have no advice, beyond what has already been offered, merely sympathy.
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beth b - Jul 25, 2005 9:22:05 am PDT #2771 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
-t is the clear headed one on this issue - unless dad and mom have been helping you pay. then , the practiacal thing to do might be something else - like head to the bay area where you have relatives you can stay with and there are jobs related to what you can do , if not what you want to do.
brenda m - Jul 25, 2005 9:22:58 am PDT #2772 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Okay, PC, that's fucking insane. I think this is a line you don't want to let your mom cross, even if it will be tough going the parent-defying route.
Anne W. - Jul 25, 2005 9:23:21 am PDT #2773 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
PC, you need to tell your folks the following, over and over and over again:
"Mom, Dad, I'm willing to listen to your advice, and I'll accept your help if I feel I need it, but you WILL NOT make decisions for me on my behalf."
Fred Pete - Jul 25, 2005 9:25:25 am PDT #2774 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
Fair point as a practical matter, Cindy. If P-C's parents are footing the bill, they do have the prerogative to stop. The problem is, his mother told the realtor that certain specific things were going to happen without bothering to let P-C know about it.
In that case, the better course would have been to tell P-C that the financial support for an apartment stops as of some specific date. Then P-C could decide his next moves -- which could be moving home, temping, or something else that it's too hot for me to dig up from my mind.
(ETA: And since P-C points out that his parents aren't footing the bill, the whole things is moot anyway.)
beth b - Jul 25, 2005 9:25:26 am PDT #2775 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
answered all ready. so don't cancel. and just keep moving forward. - but I would start calculating how much time is left.
and then you can say - nope, no need to cancel I still have a years rent left. to your folks . even if there is only 4 months left.