Let's shoot for either the 13th or the 20th.
You guys had a riot? On account of me? A real riot?
Jayne ,'Jaynestown'
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Cashmere - Jul 18, 2005 6:34:00 am PDT #1441 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
beth b - Jul 18, 2005 6:35:49 am PDT #1442 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
surgery ma~~~
Steph L. - Jul 18, 2005 6:36:11 am PDT #1443 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
Oh, actually -- it'll have to be the 13th. Because the weekend of the 20th, my bro and SiL will be home for Reception #2, and I'm sure there'll be an assload of family stuff to do then.
So, the 13th? Or the 27th.
-t - Jul 18, 2005 6:39:59 am PDT #1444 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Belated birthday happies for juilana.
I'm a wee bit distracted and not focussy. My brother got married on Friday. Happy making but also leaving me off balance.
brenda m - Jul 18, 2005 6:49:55 am PDT #1445 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Bah. All the good intents in the world aren't going to help if I can't follow through.
I don't really think that's true. I think just being aware when you're getting into a situation that maybe you should be handling otherwise is a big step forward. It's not all the way there, but it's something.
Scrappy - Jul 18, 2005 6:55:08 am PDT #1446 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Saying no and upsetting people is the hard part of the whole boundaries thing. Once you do it a couple of times and see how quickly they get over it and how it doesn't destroy your realtionship and, by gum, that they still like you (okay, my issue there), it gets easier.
beekaytee - Jul 18, 2005 6:59:08 am PDT #1447 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant
I so want to jump into conversations like this but A) off duty, B) none of my business. But I will say that Brenda and Robin are wise.
Plus, because I can't help myself...Remember that people choose their own emotions. You can't MAKE them feel anything.
Cashmere - Jul 18, 2005 7:00:59 am PDT #1448 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
So, the 13th? Or the 27th.
The 13th looks good to me.
-t - Jul 18, 2005 7:18:21 am PDT #1449 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Do the hard mentally healthy stuff as best you can, Tep. And don't beat yourself up about sometimes taking the easy way, just don't let it become habit.
B&J's Flavor Locator says the nearest Chocolate Therapy to me is in Mccomb Mississippi. That's so wrong.
Steph L. - Jul 18, 2005 7:20:17 am PDT #1450 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
B&J's Flavor Locator
I'm gonna be in Vermont in 3 weeks -- Ben & Jerry's tour, baby!!!