Riley: No pulse. Anya: Yup. The space lamb got 'im.

'Never Leave Me'


Natter 36: But We Digress...  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Fred Pete - Jun 21, 2005 6:02:13 am PDT #3346 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

we usually had six to twelve cats and kittens at any one time.

Sorry to disappoint, but this will only make 3. Teddy's the 11YO big brother. The new arrivals are Max and Marie, 6YO Himalayans.

With a Buffista F2F connection....

We were looking for a place to board Teddy while we were at the F2F (because the usual sitter couldn't make it). When we checked out the boarding place, we met Max and Marie -- whose humans had abandoned them there. We fell in love with them, but had to wait for a release letter from the previous humans (and we didn't want to be away when the letter came in -- thus, our not being at the F2F). On Sunday evening, we finally got the call that the letter came in.


Jessica - Jun 21, 2005 6:02:38 am PDT #3347 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I've heard a crazy story about him going around the clock and not sleeping for days, then getting Bryan Singer to come and direct for a day so he could sleep.

That was an April Fool's joke for kongisking.net.


Sue - Jun 21, 2005 6:05:25 am PDT #3348 of 10001
hip deep in pie

That was an April Fool's joke for kongisking.net.

Really? That is good to know.


Dana - Jun 21, 2005 6:05:42 am PDT #3349 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

HA! Found my chair! Oh, sweet chair, you fit the small of my back so well. Let's never be parted again.


Emily - Jun 21, 2005 6:17:15 am PDT #3350 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

So there's a person I know who wrote in her lj that she didn't do anything for Father's Day because she makes sure she tells people how much she appreciates them all the time and doesn't need a madeup holiday to tell her to. Which was followed by a whole lot of comments telling her a) it wasn't about her, b) that the commenter (not her father) was disappointed not to get father's day wishes from his/her child, and c) wishing the ljer's father a happy father's day.

Now, these are family friends, so there may be banter I'm not seeing. Also, I don't know whether her father cares or not -- if he does, that might have influenced some of the commenters. But honestly, what is up with people feeling they have the right to tell other people what to do within their own family? Not even telling, really, because she made the comment, they're allowed to have opinions -- but scolding and shaming?

Just needed to get that out of my system, as I feel it would be kind of rude to go reply to the commenters with "nose, in business, other people's." Plus one of the commenters has historically pissed me off a lot in person as well, so I'm not really objective.

(ETA: I can sort of see how people might be resentful, honestly, if they appreciate the day and she's seeming disdainful of it -- celebrating father's day doesn't mean you don't show your appreciation at other times, of course!)


Matt the Bruins fan - Jun 21, 2005 6:17:54 am PDT #3351 of 10001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

It's freaky that if Jackson shaved and got a haircut he would now look like one of my old roomates.


shrift - Jun 21, 2005 6:20:22 am PDT #3352 of 10001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Found my chair! Oh, sweet chair, you fit the small of my back so well. Let's never be parted again.

Careful! You might get addicted to that chair, and then some evil senior webcam boy will boil your bunny, forcing you to seek the swimmy waters of salvation.


Nutty - Jun 21, 2005 6:24:03 am PDT #3353 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

Not even telling, really, because she made the comment, they're allowed to have opinions -- but scolding and shaming?

People canna bear not to be all up in each other's business.

Which, there's the issue of This is not your business, and then there's the issue of Why are you butting in on my business in public?

Having manners is vastly underrated. It's entirely possible to get away with being a buttinsky if you have manners.


Emily - Jun 21, 2005 6:35:11 am PDT #3354 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

It's entirely possible to get away with being a buttinsky if you have manners.

Apparently, it's also possible to get away with it if you evince no concern whatsoever about manners but surround yourself with people who do care. People just can't find a way to tell you to butt out politely so they get kind of stuck. And then you can claim to be forthright and no-bullshit. When really you're just Bill O'Reilly.

Er, not Nutty, obviously. This commenter that irks me.


Nutty - Jun 21, 2005 6:44:28 am PDT #3355 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

I think that there is a manners exception to callnig people on their buttinskyism. Anyway, online, nobody can tell you're giving them the cold shoulder unless you work at it.

Calling them a Bill O'Reilly or a buttinsky is a start. Or "Good evening. Please to not be all up in my business in a public venue. Concerns about my moral failings may be addressed via private email, in deference to the dignity of the entire universe. KTHXBYE!" is another option.