I battle evil. But I don't really win. The bad keeps coming back and getting stronger. Like that kid in the story, the boy that stuck his finger in the duck.

Buffy ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 09, 2005 4:26:09 pm PDT #9565 of 10001
What is even happening?

Cass, I'm sorry for the sadness, and the frustration on top of it. I'm so glad you're here.

Brenda, how does your dad do that with the tomatoes?


brenda m - Jul 09, 2005 4:36:32 pm PDT #9566 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

You plant the tomatoes upside down in a hanging basket (cutting a hole in the bottom big enough to fit the stalks through. Then dirt, and flowers planted in the top. The tomatoes grow like crazy, and you don't have to worry about staking. Plus, cool.


billytea - Jul 09, 2005 4:45:59 pm PDT #9567 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Got an email from last night's date. Pretty much what I was expecting, no real sparkage there. Ah well.

My divorce is final, final, final today. In theory. We signed the last papers six months ago and the courts were supposed to send us each a copy once they were officially entered. Then it was just a case of waiting the six months (thanks State of California) out. But neither of us ever got anything from the court. So not only am I dealing with the “piece of paper has today’s date” signaling the last death throe of my marriage, I don't actually have the paper. Fuck.

I'm sorry Cass. That's really rough.


Cass - Jul 09, 2005 4:50:15 pm PDT #9568 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

She learned it from the best.
Tales of me flashing are very overrated. There was the one time my sister flashed Tommy Lee using my breasts and the time I was sunbathing in Mexico whilst renting a house with a few other women. I think that sums up the entirety of my breasts on public display. Unless I am repressing anything.

I really love the upside-down tomatoes.

Thanks, Cindy. The frustration is really making this worse, I think. I am not looking forward to Monday, "um, so that thing, is done, right????"

Being here is really helpful.

That's really rough.
Yeah, sadly, it is. Thank you.


DavidS - Jul 09, 2005 4:50:31 pm PDT #9569 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

JZ and I had lunch with Jon Carroll today. He's a local columnist (though I also think Teppy reads him fairly frequently) that I've been reading since I moved to SF in '86. We talked about his granddaughter and Emmett and baseball and the Circus and his wife's new book and book tour stories. It was fun.

Then we went to Yum and loaded up on exotic sodas. And to tide me over until Howl comes out on DVD I got Spirited Away.


Jen - Jul 09, 2005 6:07:06 pm PDT #9570 of 10001
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

JZ and I had lunch with Jon Carroll today.

Aaaiieee! He wrote the Unitarian Jihad piece! I want to have his babies!

Also, please tell your lovely wife that I'm about to send her an email.


JZ - Jul 09, 2005 6:12:19 pm PDT #9571 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Jen, can you send it to my profile address? The address on the email you're replying to is at work and I won't be able to read it until Monday morning. Mwah!


Jen - Jul 09, 2005 6:13:10 pm PDT #9572 of 10001
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

I sent it to your profile addy mere milliseconds ago. So you should be getting it shortly!


JZ - Jul 09, 2005 6:34:28 pm PDT #9573 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

::kicks gmail::

Damn. 20-odd minutes, and nothing. Is this usual for gmail?


Typo Boy - Jul 09, 2005 7:13:35 pm PDT #9574 of 10001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

BT--have you seen our friend Bob Harris's blog?

Robin - for me that's like asking if I've seen that television shows by your friend Tim Minear. I'm a freakin Bob Harris fanboy. Although I do like his politics, what I love is his passion and his gonzo humor.

So definitely my endorsement for Robin's friend's blog.

I'm linking to the main address rather than the specific post Robin linked to:

[link]

t on edit

NSM with the gonzo humor in the current posts - as befits world situation.