Gavin, ask yourself this question. What are you more afraid of, a giant murderous demon or me?

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Betsy HP - Jun 22, 2005 8:19:55 am PDT #6211 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

There's a book by Malcolm Gladwell called Blink. It cites a lot of research to demonstrate that the good decisions are the ones you make by instinct, and that the rationalizations people come up with to explain decisions are often irrelevant or even wrong.


-t - Jun 22, 2005 8:21:08 am PDT #6212 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

This totally (and probably irrationally) bothers me. No talkie when you go wee! Stop it!

Hate that. And for the love of mike don't expect a response from me when I'm in a stall unless you are asking if there's toilet paper.


Emily - Jun 22, 2005 8:21:51 am PDT #6213 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

She called, and I had to take the call.

Especially since I had to borrow someone else's cell and stand on a box to try to get a signal.

But getting a call is different -- not ideal, but I understand it. It's when they're already on the phone when they go into the bathroom. Like, have the conversation first. This is not the best time for multitasking.


Gudanov - Jun 22, 2005 8:22:21 am PDT #6214 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

and that the rationalizations people come up with to explain decisions are often irrelevant or even wrong.

I'm sure the rationalization to spend the money to put speakers and play music in the bathrooms is irrelevant or wrong.


Cashmere - Jun 22, 2005 8:24:50 am PDT #6215 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

My office pumps music into the bathrooms, the odd thing is that's the only place where music is pumped in. If you are going to pump music into only one place in the office building, pump it into the elevators where it belongs. I don't think there is music in the elevators, but I don't remember for sure since I never use them.

I like the idea of music in the bathrooms. It's soothing. And it distracts me from knowing I'm so close to complete strangers when I'm going.


Steph L. - Jun 22, 2005 8:27:11 am PDT #6216 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Not everyone looked good with a flat, sleek, bob so waves and curls were incorporated into the craze. A gel was applied to the hair and then, while using the fingers in unison with a skilled comb, waves were sculpted into the hair. The ends of the hair were then wound around the finger and pinned, thus named "the pincurl". Long metal clamps were applied to the waves to keep them in place while the client sat under the dryer.

So, this is what my grandma called "getting her hair set"? Doesn't that make it kind of not-move-y and stiff?


DavidS - Jun 22, 2005 8:29:20 am PDT #6217 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

So, this is what my grandma called "getting her hair set"? Doesn't that make it kind of not-move-y and stiff?

A fingerwave is pretty stiff. Your grandma, however, probably had her hair set in rollers and then brushed out and styled since fingerwaves were not that common after the 30s.


Aims - Jun 22, 2005 8:29:54 am PDT #6218 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I had a Marcel done for a wedding I was in 2 years ago and I loved it. Wish I had a picture I could link to.


Steph L. - Jun 22, 2005 8:30:39 am PDT #6219 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

A fingerwave is pretty stiff. You grandma, however, probably had her hair set in rollers and then brushed out and styled since fingerwaves were not that common after the 30s.

My lack of girly knowledge is astonishing sometimes.

I can, however, throw a baserunner out at first all the way from third, so that's something.


Fred Pete - Jun 22, 2005 8:30:50 am PDT #6220 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Yay, Ms. H and CaBil!

((((vw)))) ((((Steph))))

Susan, I'm not so sure you had an out-of-the-blue "aha!" moment. Sounds (though I don't subscribe to Great Write) like all the listmaking, etc. has been going on under the surface, and the "aha!" was the decision bubbling to the surface.

On hairstyling, all I got is

She had a dark and a roving eye
And her hair hung down in ringlets