Xander: Look who's got a bad case of Dark Prince envy. Dracula: Leave us. Xander: No, we're not going to "Leabbb you." And where'd you get that accent, Sesame Street? "One, Two, Three - three victims! Maw ha ha!"

'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Jun 22, 2005 6:56:43 am PDT #6159 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM! Juliana stole all the pretty!!!


brenda m - Jun 22, 2005 6:57:53 am PDT #6160 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Make sense? It feels right, except for the part where it feels wrong to have changed my writing and career goals out of the blue on the strength of an "aha!" moment.

Susan, that sounds very right to me. And your 'aha' moment had me nodding my head madly.


-t - Jun 22, 2005 6:58:43 am PDT #6161 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It makes a lot of sense to me, Susan. Congratulations on the "aha!" moment, I hope it leads you towards happiness and satisfaction. I don't know what would be a better basis for determining your goals than yor own insights.


Lilty Cash - Jun 22, 2005 7:04:02 am PDT #6162 of 10001
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Juliana! So pretty!

OK, then Steph. Different wedding. That would have been freaky-deeky though, huh?


Steph L. - Jun 22, 2005 7:07:25 am PDT #6163 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

OK, then Steph. Different wedding. That would have been freaky-deeky though, huh?

It really would! If you go through (or near) Waterbury, stop at the Alchemist Pub & Brewery for kick-ass food and what I hear is kick-ass beer. That's my bro's restaurant, though he won't actually be there then, because he'll be back in Cincy for a second reception for the people who couldn't make it to Vermont.


Susan W. - Jun 22, 2005 7:08:13 am PDT #6164 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I don't know what would be a better basis for determining your goals than yor own insights.

Well, except that it feels like Major Life Choices shouldn't be "ahas!" They should involve pro/con lists, deep thought, prayer and meditation if one is so inclined, and generally take days or weeks to accomplish. Not just having all your annoyance with the constraints your chosen genre places on your writing come to a head at writers group one night, thinking, "Maybe instead of trying to change the genre, I should just change genres," and having everything else follow from there.


Lilty Cash - Jun 22, 2005 7:09:50 am PDT #6165 of 10001
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I don't know, Susan. The 'aha' sounds much more comforting, and I've found that when you have it, you have it for a reason. It's all the pro/con lists, all the meditation, all the angst compressed into one easy to swallow moment!


Steph L. - Jun 22, 2005 7:11:13 am PDT #6166 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

it feels like Major Life Choices shouldn't be "ahas!" They should involve pro/con lists, deep thought, prayer and meditation if one is so inclined, and generally take days or weeks to accomplish.

I disagree. Lots of Major Life Choices are "ahas!" Sometimes you just KNOW.


Susan W. - Jun 22, 2005 7:11:19 am PDT #6167 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

(And Anne, if you want another set of eyes on your resume, feel free to send it to me.)


ChiKat - Jun 22, 2005 7:11:26 am PDT #6168 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

You make it sound like you haven't been meditating/praying and making pro-con lists for the past year. If I read you correctly, this "aha" moment is just the culmination of a lot of soul searching since Annabel was born.