The King of Cups expects a picnic. But this is not his birthday!

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


libkitty - Jun 12, 2005 9:33:19 pm PDT #4375 of 10001
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

Ginger ale is my best friend today, so you have no arguement from me!

Off to clean up cat hairballs, then try to convince myself that I should sleep after lying on the couch watching videos and napping all day. Actually, that last bit doesn't sound too hard right about now.


Aims - Jun 12, 2005 9:42:26 pm PDT #4376 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Ok, I need to try to sleep. Long, early day tomorrow.


billytea - Jun 12, 2005 10:04:53 pm PDT #4377 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Whoa, BT. Have you met her?

I have. She seems nice enough. Quick rundown, she works in arbitration and mediation, and they first met professionally. She's been married before, and has kids ranging in age between 10 and 17. Not really much else to say. They've been spending a lot of time together, from what I can gather.


Trudy Booth - Jun 12, 2005 10:11:59 pm PDT #4378 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

If its upsetting at times it might be helpful to remind yourself of the tendency of men past a certain age to be helpless without a woman to care for them.


billytea - Jun 12, 2005 10:30:56 pm PDT #4379 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

If its upsetting at times it might be helpful to remind yourself of the tendency of men past a certain age to be helpless without a woman to care for them.

Not upsetting. I worry about whether he's ready for another relationship (largely because I feel like I'm only just getting there myself), and I don't want him to fall into something else just because he's lonely. But I know M wouldn't have wanted him to be on his own for the rest of his life, and it's good to see him happy.


Trudy Booth - Jun 12, 2005 10:36:33 pm PDT #4380 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I'm glad you're essentially comfortable with it, it can be rough when the offspring are not.

Maybe it WILL turn out to be too soon or because he's lonely, but right now he's happy and that probably matters most.


billytea - Jun 12, 2005 10:39:08 pm PDT #4381 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Maybe it WILL turn out to be too soon or because he's lonely, but right now he's happy and that probably matters most.

Yep. This is all quite indisputably his decision, of course, and I'm good with that.


Trudy Booth - Jun 12, 2005 10:45:47 pm PDT #4382 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

See how I got through that discussion without being porny?


billytea - Jun 12, 2005 10:47:21 pm PDT #4383 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I think you've grown as a person.


Trudy Booth - Jun 12, 2005 11:08:28 pm PDT #4384 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

You take that back!