Glad you have a lead, P-C. If you get an offer, you can consider it with you situation at that time, you don't have to decide now. If you do move to KC, you can tell your parents you'll be closer to them...
Oh, God. Oh, God. My hair. My hair! The government gave me bad hair!
Cordelia ,'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'
Spike's Bitches 24: I'm Very Seldom Naughty.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
-t - Jun 10, 2005 11:55:49 am PDT #3982 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
SailAweigh - Jun 10, 2005 11:56:01 am PDT #3983 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
Whoot! Cashmere, congratulations! Owen is going to be the supercoolest older brother.
Lyra Jane, you are not a failure by any means. It's a shitty job market out there right now. And more companies are doing what they can to save a buck than we would like.
P-C, take the job in KC. You're young and you still have plenty of places to see and things to do. Let KC be the first in a veritble cornucopia of cool places you will have lived. Basically, you want the experience, get it.
Nora, I swear by the Aveeno Positvely Radiant face wash. That stuff leaves my skin feeling so soft and resiliant, I rarely use anything else.
vw, even though I've always had relatively good credit and took out student loans for myself with no problem, when I went to get a loan for my daughter's school I didn't qualify. I had to have a cosigner, so I had my mother cosign for me. Is it possible you could get the loan with a cosigner? Also, even if you don't qualify for a Stafford Loan, check with the state. The state often has various loan programs available, too.
libkitty - Jun 10, 2005 11:57:33 am PDT #3984 of 10001
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs
So yeah, they aren't quite the assholes I made them out to be.
Here and I've been coming up with all sorts of wonderful, supportive things to write as I skipped and skimmed, about how they are just asshats and this should have no effect on your feelings of self-worth. Well, that last part is still true, but I'm glad that it turned out that they weren't so awful. Plus, yeah on the interview!
Calli, everything I've read indicates that chocolate can cause headaches, specifically migraines, for some people. Others don't seem to be affected one way or another. I've never heard about it helping. Believe me, I would have run with that one if I had.
p.s. Out of curiosity, I did a quick PubMed search. I didn't go far into the results, but the only link I found between chocolate and headaches was that it could cause them. I did find this cool quote in an abstract from a French article from a journal on pharmaceutical history:
Medicinal chocolates were essentially nutritive and analeptic, pectoral, stomachic, purgative or anthelmintic. All of them have disappeared today, but the pharmacological interest of chocolate remains with its antidepressive activity and the promising proposes of some of its components.
From: [Chocolate in some french pharmaceutical or medicinal books from XVIIth, XVIIIth and XIXth centuries. Its beneficent and inconvenient, proved or imaginary, effects] Rev Hist Pharm (Paris). 2003;51(338):197-210. French.
Mr. Broom - Jun 10, 2005 11:58:38 am PDT #3985 of 10001
"When I look at people that I would like to feel have been a mentor or an inspiring kind of archetype of what I'd love to see my career eventually be mentioned as a footnote for in the same paragraph, it would be, like, Bowie." ~Trent Reznor
We could be roomies!Not this year. Got a lease signed through July '06. What company is this?
libkitty - Jun 10, 2005 11:59:37 am PDT #3986 of 10001
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs
Oh, I forgot to add my congrats on the new buffistas baby-to-be and job and decision ~ma to P-C.
P.M. Marc - Jun 10, 2005 12:01:31 pm PDT #3987 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Plei, insent. And I'm very upset withmyself for not finding a Reel Mom type situation here in town while Owen was wee. Now that we've reached toddlertown, it's the babysitter or Netflix.
Cash, I think he's still young enough to attend, unless it's him wandering off or seeing inappropriate things that worries.
Cashmere - Jun 10, 2005 12:05:43 pm PDT #3988 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
unless it's him wandering off or seeing inappropriate things that worries.
He's a wanderer. He refuses to sit still in the stroller even at this point. He wants. to be. WALKING. All the time.
As for inappropriate, I gave him his bed-time bottle while watching the Inside the other night. It's probably getting to the point where I shoudl start DVR'ing that stuff and watching it when he's in bed at 9:30.
-t - Jun 10, 2005 12:05:44 pm PDT #3989 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Congratulations, Gris!
Polter-Cow - Jun 10, 2005 12:07:09 pm PDT #3990 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Would there be wacky adventures?
What with our being the same person, I believe there would be.
P-C, take the job in KC. You're young and you still have plenty of places to see and things to do. Let KC be the first in a veritble cornucopia of cool places you will have lived. Basically, you want the experience, get it.
Yeah, there's that, and there's also the going to be married in two years. I feel like things might get less cornucopic after that.
Not this year. Got a lease signed through July '06. What company is this?
Yeah, well, I've got a lease signed through August '06 here, so. What fun. PRA International; they're actually in Lenexa.
Lyra Jane - Jun 10, 2005 12:08:30 pm PDT #3991 of 10001
Up with the sun
If you get an offer, you can consider it with you situation at that time, you don't have to decide now.
This is good advice, P-C.
Also, I'm not sure what other jobhunting people would tell you, but I've consistently found I need to send out about seven to ten resumes for every one interview. Cast a wide net now, and you can narrow it down once you've had a chance to talk to some employers.