uh-oh!
what did she say???
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Nora Deirdre - Jun 07, 2005 1:37:33 pm PDT #3220 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Sparky1 - Jun 07, 2005 1:43:04 pm PDT #3221 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
what did she say???
She said she'd never want to get a driver's license because then she'd have to do things alone and this meant that her husband would come home every night, and didn't I hate doing things like grocery shopping alone when I could be doing them with my hubby?
Aims - Jun 07, 2005 1:52:46 pm PDT #3222 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
How does this sound:
B-The shower sounds like an awful lot of fun but I worry that if your guests have to pay for their spa treatments, they might not get you gifts and since the shower is supposed to be about you anyway, maybe T and I and the others plan something where we would all pamper you. Just my thoughts, love. A
Sparky1 - Jun 07, 2005 2:00:17 pm PDT #3223 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
Aimée, how 'bout adding some of what -t said above about not really spending time with people at the spa?
Makes my heart break a little to think that you have to figure out a way to deal with this rather than just being able to say honestly, "love ya, woman, I'll have to pass on the spa but I'll be there for your vows."
Aims - Jun 07, 2005 2:01:54 pm PDT #3224 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I'm trying to figure out a way to handle it because I have been, surprise surprise, kind of opinionated in a few other area of her wedding and I'm trying to tread lightly so as not to hurt her feelings again.
-t - Jun 07, 2005 2:03:40 pm PDT #3225 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
That sounds good, Aimee.
I'm starting to get the urge to lock Sparky's friend's wife up in a lab and do experiments on her. Strangely fascinating.
Scrappy - Jun 07, 2005 2:05:09 pm PDT #3226 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
If that's so, Aimee, I might avoid mentioning what the other guests "have to" spend money on--it sounds like you're dissing her choice. Just speak for yourself and say that money is very tight right now and it sounds like a lovely weekend, however you won't go this time, but look forward to her other shower and to having her all to yourself at Burke Williams.
Sparky1 - Jun 07, 2005 2:07:15 pm PDT #3227 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
but I worry that if your guests have to pay for their spa treatments, they might not get you gifts and since the shower is supposed to be about you anyway
I understand you need to tread lightly. How about flipping the above a bit: "the shower is supposed to be about you, and I worry that if the guests are thinking about paying for their spa treatments they won't get you gifts and give you the attention you deserve"
Aims - Jun 07, 2005 2:07:21 pm PDT #3228 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
B-The shower sounds like an awful lot of fun but the shower is supposed to be about you, and I worry that if the guests are thinking about paying for their spa treatments they won't get you gifts and give you the attention you deserve maybe T and I and the others plan something where we would all pamper you. Just my thoughts, Love. A
Edited cause I liked the sujoostetion.
Nora Deirdre - Jun 07, 2005 2:13:06 pm PDT #3229 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
She said she'd never want to get a driver's license because then she'd have to do things alone and this meant that her husband would come home every night, and didn't I hate doing things like grocery shopping alone when I could be doing them with my hubby?
t eye roll
I mean, yeah, going to the grocery store/Target is what approximates a date for Tom and I right now, but that's no reason for simpering forced helplessness.
She sounds like a total lame-ass!
Tom is tickled to see my ass get the attention he feels it so richly deserves.