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'Selfless'


What Happens in Natter 35 Stays in Natter 35  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Nilly - May 01, 2005 5:48:22 am PDT #368 of 10001
Swouncing

Skipping thousands of posts, the ending of a thread and the beginning of a new one, and actually (behold my surprise) have something to say:

Jars, my experience is only with Israeli moms, so I'm not sure how much it may apply, but anyway: if I buy baby clothes/toys/etc. I make sure it's from a chain store, and with the possibility of returning them and having them replaced, in case the baby already has plenty of that stuff/the size isn't right/the color is annoying to somebody and the like. If it's a close enough friend, I usually ask what they (the parents) want, if there's something they need and didn't think of buying or only discovered that they need. I try to include something for the mother as well - something to watch while feeding, for example (not books, though, unless specifically asked). Another thing is food - healthy nutritious food. If you're a good cook, something home-made is the best, IMHO, but of course anything will do. Usually I try to avoid the flowers/baloons/chocolates more obvious stuff, because I assume a million of people will be giving those, but that may be just me.


beth b - May 01, 2005 5:51:59 am PDT #369 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Hey Nilly! how's school been? what else is up?


Jars - May 01, 2005 5:54:33 am PDT #370 of 10001

Ooh, dvds are a good idea, thanks.

Also the homemade food thing sounds good. I'll make a cheesecake or shortbread or something.

I already bought the baby some babygrows and socks and things, though I'll probably have to change them as it's a BIG baby, apparently. Which I really should have seen coming, seeing as no one in her family is under six feet. Oh well, live and learn.


Hil R. - May 01, 2005 5:54:42 am PDT #371 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Nilly! Hi!


vw bug - May 01, 2005 5:58:30 am PDT #372 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I second the homemade food suggestion from Nilly...something that could possibly freeze well... Also, maybe a fun/nice shirt/top for the mom in an inbetween size...since she won't want to wear maternity clothes, but won't fit into her pre-pregnancy clothes either.

NILLY!


Steph L. - May 01, 2005 6:03:30 am PDT #373 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Also the homemade food thing sounds good. I'll make a cheesecake or shortbread or something.

Even better would be an entree, like a lasagne, or a casserole -- like vw said, something that would freeze well.


Nilly - May 01, 2005 6:07:13 am PDT #374 of 10001
Swouncing

what else is up?

Hi, beth (whose birthday I missed!). I'm just back today from Passover, which has been a whole week. In which I didn't have any computer access, let alone internet access (my parents have both, but I was at their place only at the beginning and end of the holiday).

I don't think I'll be able to go this long without Google ever again. I couldn't even pretend that I know stuff! And dictionaries and encyclopedias expect you to know the exact word you're looking for, not what's related to it, and how can my sieve deal with that, fed only by matzot and still dizzy from cleaning-materials since the former week? I'm so computer-addicted. Sigh.

But I went on a picnic with family and friends, went to an amusement park (and managed to mention Disneyland only around twice an hour, so everybody else forgave me), borrowed a 9000-pieces jigsaw puzzle from a friend, some books from another, another got her "Wonderfalls" DVDs (um, I didn't take them from her, but I got a promise that we'll watch later on), and I didn't get to catch up on all the work I missed while cleaning for Passover. The weather was perfect - in fact, I don't remember such a gorgeous weather during any Passover before. All in all, quite a good holiday.

How's everybody?

[Edited to wave at Hil and vw]


vw bug - May 01, 2005 6:11:49 am PDT #375 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oh, Nilly, that sounds like a wonderful holiday. I think I'd go nuts without Google for that long too, though.

I had a question for you last week, but I can no longer remember it. Oh, well. So good to "see" you.


Hil R. - May 01, 2005 6:12:23 am PDT #376 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

How's everybody?

Well, I finally got my actual confirmation (after about three "this is almost a confirmation, but not quite") from birthright israel.

Also, I am very very sick of Passover by now, and have already made plans with a friend to go out for Italian food tonight. Mmm, pasta.


Jars - May 01, 2005 6:15:20 am PDT #377 of 10001

Even better would be an entree, like a lasagne, or a casserole -- like vw said, something that would freeze well.

She's living with her parents at the moment, so that kind of thing isn't really needed, I don't think. Getting her younger brothers earplugs might be though. Hmm.