Buffy ,'Help'
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So the missing bride-to-be lied about being kidnapped to avoid her wedding. The wedding with 14 bridesmaids.
If her parents paid for this, I hope they can get their money back. And her poor fiance--people were comparing him to Scott Peterson already. There are probably better ways to deal with cold feet.
She's 32. She couldn't just say, "Oh, I'm not ready for this"?
YUM! Just ate some steel cut oats! Delicious. Thank you, ita, for providing the inspiration.
That is just awful. Having just gone through dealing with a disappearance of a friend myself, I hope that girl gets some serious help...not just a rescheduled wedding date!
Eeek!
I was so exhausted from my week that I slept from like midnight to 8 AM - more in one go than I have all week, and could have slept more except there's too darn much to do today!
So the missing bride-to-be lied about being kidnapped to avoid her wedding.
I know! "Her poor fiance" is right. Now instead of *only* having to deal with the fact that his girlfriend balked at the wedding, the whole country is going to see him as the guy whose fiancee pretended to be kidnapped just to avoid the wedding. So absurd. And the hundreds of people out searching for her, with tracking dogs, and the reward? She better be damned ashamed of herself.
Go, Nora! I just bought another can of oats, because I'm going to work out how to make the stupid porridge.
I'm little miss judgey and unforgivey -- I would not make for happy fuzzy soundbites if a relative of mine pulled that sort of gag. For a start, I have incredible contempt for high-maintenance lies.
I'd be furious. It's so thoughtless. You want to cancel the wedding? Fine, face the consequences. And if you DO run away like a big huge baby, call your family as soon as you see they are frantic with worry.
I'd be torn between "How could you be so STUPID???" and "How could you be so INCONSIDERATE??"
I do tend to get caught up in the stupidity of the unsustainable deception quite a bit. Toss that in with hurting people? "We look forward to loving her" my ass.
I think it's perfectly fine to cut off family members. My mother and I argued about this (I begged her to turn me in without guilt if I ever went on a murderous rampage, for instance) ... until she finally cut one off, and now she's worse than I am on that front.
I do tend to get caught up in the stupidity of the unsustainable deception quite a bit. Toss that in with hurting people? "We look forward to loving her" my ass.
Easy to say till it actually happens to you. I mean, maybe you would still react that way. I guess it really depends on the circumstances. And, I really think that no matter how much coverage there is on this situation, there is more going on than we could possibly know about. And really, maybe this situation is way to close for me to be able to talk about it reasonably.