Thanks, beathen. I'll do just that (and wash my face the minute I get to my hotel room).
Weird love's better than no love.
Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'
Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Glamcookie - May 18, 2005 10:58:16 am PDT #9864 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Lee - May 18, 2005 11:01:16 am PDT #9865 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
Cindy, Emily, Lee, and Maria. I am very afraid.
One of those 4 will be the nicest one evah, luckily.
I am pretty much with Plei on the cat thing, though I am actually more of a pet person than a cat person. I just can't imagine not have a pet of some sort. Plus, I have made a committment to the two cats I now have, and I do take them into consideration when I am planning my life. I know Ozzie wouldn't survive a plane trip, and I took that into consideration when I was looking for places to move. I am also not sure he would survive changing owners. Perkins the cat would, but I am not sure about Ozzie. Consequently, hile he is still alive, no cats would be a deal breaker for me.
Calli - May 18, 2005 11:07:05 am PDT #9866 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
People's priorities differ. I could live without cats, but there will be dogs in my life as soon as I can afford to take care of one properly. I've lived without a significant other and I've lived without dogs, and I find I miss dogs more. Would I like to hitch up with a suitable fella? Sure. But dogs are on my relationship filter, just like "tolerates books" and "religiously liberal".
Most women I know have various filters in place. Some would never get involved with guys who aren't in the same general social-economic class. Some would never get involved with younger guys. Some would never go for guys who can't dance/cross dress/listen to country-western music/are computer geeks. Some insist on fellas who want kids.
None of those are my filters. Are you 33 year old bisexual computer geek with no rythmn, a vascectomy, and a fondness for Mary Chapin Carpenter (or just want her clothes)? Are you ok with dogs, books, and neo-pagan types? We can get coffee.
Sparky1 - May 18, 2005 11:11:22 am PDT #9867 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
We can get coffee.
So, he's got to like coffee?
Calli - May 18, 2005 11:13:09 am PDT #9868 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
he's got to like coffee?
Well, he has to tolerate the smell. It's either that or deal with me without my coffee, and that would test the strongest relationship.
erikaj - May 18, 2005 11:13:10 am PDT #9869 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!
My pool is already a trickle, anyway.
Gudanov - May 18, 2005 11:16:56 am PDT #9870 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
tolerates books
"What are those... things on the shelves?"
"Books"
"Oh. I can't deal with that."
It's hard to imagine book intolerent.
§ ita § - May 18, 2005 11:17:13 am PDT #9871 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
My pool is already a trickle, anyway.
Time to lower your standards, baby! Better to be miserable with someone than vaguely unhappy alone.
Gudanov - May 18, 2005 11:19:30 am PDT #9872 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
Better to be miserable with someone
Hey, that's how my wife describes her life with me right now.
Steph L. - May 18, 2005 11:20:17 am PDT #9873 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
Time to lower your standards, baby! Better to be miserable with someone than vaguely unhappy alone.
ita, you are a paragon of mental health.