I'm asking for these for my birthday.
How long do I have to wait? Can we make some sort of deal?
Kittens, perhaps?
eta: cuz we could make a dea, but that isn't the kind of enforcement I need.
I wanna die in bed surrounded by fat grandchildren, but guess that's off the menu.
Jenny ,'Bring On The Night'
Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beekaytee - Apr 21, 2005 10:37:50 am PDT #4964 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant
Ginger - Apr 21, 2005 10:39:15 am PDT #4965 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Gud, notice "Bitch" in the title. It's not just a noun around here. It's a place to vent. I hope you can find a way to be happier. It's hard for me to imagine saying mean things to someone who cleans, but I know how bad it can get between two people.
Gudanov - Apr 21, 2005 10:41:33 am PDT #4966 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
She's not a bad person or anything, it's just hard to get along right now and I'm not sure how we're going to fix things.
Fred Pete - Apr 21, 2005 10:41:57 am PDT #4967 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
((((Gudanov))))
ChiKat - Apr 21, 2005 10:45:18 am PDT #4968 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
I'm sure he can be nudged into posting them when he comes to a rest stop (unless Kristin objects, which she shouldn't, 'cause SMOKING HOTT).
Yes, yes please.
hopping up and down, clapping hands in gleeful anticipation
P.M. Marc - Apr 21, 2005 10:46:51 am PDT #4969 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Ah, Gud. Is there someone who can watch the kidlets for a weekend while you two go somewhere quiet and peaceful and try to reconnect?
Sparky, I'm so sorry for you and for Mr. Sparky, who is a sweet, darling man, and deserves to have the world leave his family alone.
Nora, good luck getting the bids in soon, and remember, this part of homebuying will soon be over.
Connie Neil - Apr 21, 2005 10:47:25 am PDT #4970 of 10001
brillig
Kittens, perhaps?
I want a kitten. I"ve got two cats, but I want a kitten. A bouncy, big-eyed, ball of fluff who will collapse on me to take naps but who isn't so heavy that this is an inconvenience.
When one's biological clock goes off, aren't you supposed to be longing for babies of your own species?
Cashmere - Apr 21, 2005 10:47:35 am PDT #4971 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
She's not a bad person or anything, it's just hard to get along right now and I'm not sure how we're going to fix things.
Definitely not a bad person--you married her and she's the mother of your kids. It's just hard for some people to work through the rough patches. Spoken from experience--I've taken DH for granted and forgotten what a great guy he is, too. Hopefully, she'll put in as much effort as you have been to figuring out what's wrong and finding a solution, for the sake of your family.
Gudanov - Apr 21, 2005 10:49:02 am PDT #4972 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
Ah, Gud. Is there someone who can watch the kidlets for a weekend while you two go somewhere quiet and peaceful and try to reconnect?
We've done that a couple of times, but it didn't seem to go well.
beekaytee - Apr 21, 2005 10:54:26 am PDT #4973 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant
We've done that a couple of times, but it didn't seem to go well.
It's tough to get perspective, or new tools, when the two involved are working from old patterns and accumulated resentment.
And, honestly? Gud, it might make sense to talk to somebody (of course I'm going to recommend getting help, either personal or professional...it works!) on your own...about your pain, etc...before attempting to work things out between you.
I've stopped more than one couple's counseling session when it became obvious that there was just too much 'stuff' crammed between them for either to see the other clearly.
eta: I sincerely believe that changing the internal landscape causes life outside outselves to shift. Plus? So much more effective than trying to change someone else. Which is pretty much, techically impossible anyway.