I'm 17. Looking at linoleum makes me want to have sex.

Xander ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Gudanov - Apr 21, 2005 5:02:15 am PDT #4785 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

With Leif, I rolled him up in a towel and then put the eye-drops in. All wrapped up like a burrito, he couldn't put up his usual fight.


sj - Apr 21, 2005 5:04:58 am PDT #4786 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

He didn't put up a fight about being rolled up in a towel?


Cashmere - Apr 21, 2005 5:05:52 am PDT #4787 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

sj, it's probably tough for your mom, too. Just try to remember she does it because she loves you. Stand your ground firmly but lovingly. And remind her that you have to be free to make your own mistakes and live with them as an adult. Maybe you haven't been perfectly responsible but heavens knows not every adult is perfect. It's the learning from the mistakes that helps us BE adults.

Cindy, I've covered my eyes and am singing "lalalalalala" at the thought of giving eye drops.


Cashmere - Apr 21, 2005 5:06:31 am PDT #4788 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

With Leif, I rolled him up in a towel and then put the eye-drops in. All wrapped up like a burrito, he couldn't put up his usual fight.

This works well with cats, too.


Gudanov - Apr 21, 2005 5:08:14 am PDT #4789 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

He didn't put up a fight about being rolled up in a towel?

Getting rolled up in a towel is just good fun until someone tries to put drops in your eye.


vw bug - Apr 21, 2005 5:08:47 am PDT #4790 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oops. I wasn't supposed to wake Emily.


sj - Apr 21, 2005 5:09:41 am PDT #4791 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, it's probably tough for your mom, too. Just try to remember she does it because she loves you. Stand your ground firmly but lovingly. And remind her that you have to be free to make your own mistakes and live with them as an adult. Maybe you haven't been perfectly responsible but heavens knows not every adult is perfect. It's the learning from the mistakes that helps us BE adults.

I know she loves me, but I cannot stand my ground with her at all. If I get angry or upset with her it is because I am depressed or PMSy and "are you still taking your ADs" is the response I get. She won't even consider that there may be something wrong on her end. I don't know what to do. I am going to go take a hot bath now and see if I can stop being pathetic whiny girl before I go see Teacup Guy tonight.


Gudanov - Apr 21, 2005 5:10:45 am PDT #4792 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

I wasn't supposed to wake Emily.

Hopefully she isn't like my Psycho!Girlfriend in college and physically assaults people when awaken.


-t - Apr 21, 2005 5:13:46 am PDT #4793 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Lily is amazing in her tiny perfection.


-t - Apr 21, 2005 5:15:31 am PDT #4794 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Not being taken seriously really sucks, sj. I wish I had good advice for remedying that. But a hot bath sounds like an excellent stopgap measure.