Last night for the first time she strrretttched out her arm so she could be hugging both of us.

So precious! That's wonderful Susan.

Lisah, absolutely use it! She'll be giddy with delight. We want a copy!

Lilty, I hope something works out for you. Having to move back in with the parents after you've already been all grown up and stuff is of the suck.

{{-t}} if it helps, I think you've made the right decision. It's hard to postpone dreams, though.

Not even the people (I lived with my best friend and then my cousin) but just the sharing of space. I became SO intolerant of that once I hit 28-29. That might be me though.

Make that 18, and you're me. (Okay, so I also moved in with DH around then, but it's different with a fiance/spouse.)

Thanks, Kate (eta, and Deena!). I'm doing okay, pretty much. I'm doing a lot of waiting - until we can move, until I can look for a "real" job, until I can try to get pregnant again - and I don't wait well. But that's just life, sometimes. On the positive side, I've lost 7 pounds in the last two weeks and I get a little vacation in about a week. Those are pretty big positives.

Perfectly understandable freak-out, Lilty. I totally get that "I'm sorry you have this big huge thing to deal with, but how about how it impacts me?" feeling, and the guilt that's attached to it. So very normal, if you were wondering. I'm glad we can take the rant so you can be supportive for your friend.

And many good thoughts going out to Heather and Mr. Heather.

Nora, I had an issue with MM drinking my juice when we first moved in together. I just sat there staring at him wondering what the FUCK he thought he was doing. And I was having sex with him. I can't imagine having to deal with that with someone who ain't giving it up.

it's different with a fiance/spouse

I can't imagine that either. Of course, I also can't imagine living with most pets -- you mean independently mobile organisms that I'm not allowed to spray to death will be in my home when I'm not? Creepy.

Hee! I get pissy when Greg drinks my diet coke to take medication or something and then whines about how gawdawful it tastes. Dude! Get your own drink!

Many good thoughts for Heather, Mr. Heather and his grandmother.

Oh, if I had my way, I'd totally go it alone. Thing is, I don't think I could manage alone just yet, and if I were waiting until I'd saved up money for a whole deposit alone, I'd be in Maine forever!

nods head in massive agreement

This is why I ended up staying in one apartment for 9 years and another for 6, and both were too small for me when I moved in - the second one humrously so...if you weren't me. When we were done moving me in, but before I'd been able to unpack anything, there was a pile of stuff instead of a room there. Hopefully, never again.

Oh, and Lilty, sorry to have missed you Friday, but it sounds like life was coming down on you this weekend.

(-t) Thank you so much! I was feeling like just about the most evil person in the world when I was up tossing and turning over this, and not just for her sake.

Living with Tom is a lot different than lviing wth roommates. I thought, actually, I'd have trouble, due to my previous aversion of roommates, but it worked out surprisingly well.

It helps that he does my bidding.

Doesn't it always?

Lily is so beautiful.

{{{Connie, Calli & vw}}} for you various reasons.

D.Griswold -- oh! The people on the internets were nasty about Rory. Well, not on the internets that I go read and post about GG. (I avoid TWOP forums.)

Meanwhile, we all KNEW that Rory wouldn't be able to just blithely hangout and have sex with Logan, right? Even though she thought she could.

Sigh.