I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cashmere - Apr 10, 2005 7:29:42 am PDT #2382 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Um, you know one

Heh. Mostly, I was referring to my non-buffista friends, although that's not that many.


Cashmere - Apr 10, 2005 7:32:36 am PDT #2383 of 10001
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We punted a lot, but it made me feel less pressured when those things happened that required a change.

This wouldn't have been me. When I plan something, I want it to go accordingly. I would have been crushed if I had spent all that time thinking about how I wanted it to go idealy, only to have to veer from the plan when the situation required it.

If I had tried to plan for all the contingencies, I would have had to print it out on a giant roll of paper because it would have consisted of a huge flow chart with lots of if/thens.


Deena - Apr 10, 2005 7:36:56 am PDT #2384 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Ah, that wouldn't have been any fun. Mine was a single page, I think, and mostly about wanting to nurse (which didn't happen) and wanting the baby to sleep in (she never slept so we had to send her to the nursery a couple of times so I could get some rest) and that I wanted an epidural and stuff like that. I don't recall all of it.

I didn't do one with Aidan, and I wish I'd had more control of what went on with him. I was too out of it to follow what was going on and I still don't really recall what the emergency was that kept him in the nursery for most of a day. A plan wouldn't have helped with that, though.


Aims - Apr 10, 2005 7:52:23 am PDT #2385 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I had a list of things I did NOT want to happen and in what order.

Every last freaking one of them happened.

That'll learn me. :)


Cashmere - Apr 10, 2005 7:55:24 am PDT #2386 of 10001
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BWAH!


Aims - Apr 10, 2005 7:57:13 am PDT #2387 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I know.

Although, now I can schedule births! Advance notice given and invites made! I can choose astrlogical signs! And no maore contractions ever ever ever!


Deena - Apr 10, 2005 8:09:15 am PDT #2388 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Sounds like Aimee's teething. Someone got the Tylenol?


Steph L. - Apr 10, 2005 8:14:01 am PDT #2389 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

A picture for Aimee (and anyone else who's interested): Still not King (yet). RAWR. That is one fine-looking future monarch.


Cashmere - Apr 10, 2005 8:24:01 am PDT #2390 of 10001
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That is one fine-looking future monarch.

He's going bald very early, though.


Lee - Apr 10, 2005 8:24:43 am PDT #2391 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I lugged my laundry all the way to the basement only to find that all 8 of the washing machines were full.

I hate it when that happens. It always ends with me not doing the laundry.