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Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 06, 2005 9:26:30 am PDT #1637 of 10001
What is even happening?

Yes, clearly, the best option is to shame large kids and teens into conforming. In fact, lets do away with clothes for fat people all together - it just helps them pretend to fit in. That would be hard on the thin folk, though - maybe some burlap bags would do the trick?

I read something elsewhere, and I can't attest to its accuracy, because it was elsewhere. During the Schiavo case, someone linked to an op-ed piece which took the position that Terri Schiavo was going to die, because she'd been a fat kid.

In the op-ed piece, it stated that the way children's weight is considered/analyzed, how they define overweight children is those children in the top 15 percent for body mass--in other words, 15% of kids are always considered fat, because it's a self-defining statistic. Is there any truth to that?


P.M. Marc - Apr 06, 2005 9:28:58 am PDT #1638 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Brenda, the amount of rage I'm seeing about that stupid article is making me happy.

Aimee, go Paris, choose Paris!


Emily - Apr 06, 2005 9:33:36 am PDT #1639 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Yes, clearly, the best option is to shame large kids and teens into conforming. In fact, lets do away with clothes for fat people all together - it just helps them pretend to fit in. That would be hard on the thin folk, though - maybe some burlap bags would do the trick?

Lordy. And also, the rest of the culture is so accepting and encouraging of fatness that the only way overweight people could ever feel less than nurtured and feted is if there aren't any pretty clothes.

Yuh huh.


Jessica - Apr 06, 2005 9:36:42 am PDT #1640 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

There was an article in Self* last month by a formerly overweight woman waxing lyrical about how she used to have fabulous self-esteem and thought she looked great, but then she discovered self-loathing, and finally managed to lose weight. She now feels crappy about her self-image, but she's down a jeans size! Yay! It was beyond sickening.

*My gym has copies lying around


Emily - Apr 06, 2005 9:38:03 am PDT #1641 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Jessica, just... wow.


Aims - Apr 06, 2005 9:39:42 am PDT #1642 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Fucking ewww.

Be happy. Be healthy. Be both. It is possible.

(on edit: I'm a fucking Cheerio's commercial)


P.M. Marc - Apr 06, 2005 9:40:31 am PDT #1643 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Wow, Jess. That's just...

Repulsive.

I quit buying Self (back in '99) when I realized I was buying it to flog myself for weight gain. (Good days, I'd buy Mode. Bad days, I'd buy Self.)

Fuck it. I'm not letting the Body Image Demons back into my house post-baby. It's been so nice having them gone, I'm going to just tell those fuckers they're evicted.


Jessica - Apr 06, 2005 9:40:59 am PDT #1644 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Yeah, reading it really amped up my determination to bring my own reading material to the gym from now on.


Pix - Apr 06, 2005 9:42:03 am PDT #1645 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

thwump


juliana - Apr 06, 2005 9:46:53 am PDT #1646 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

There was an article in Self*

Yup. Z read that in Walgreen's and promptly ranted for 10 minutes. I used to buy Self until I realized that I didn't need exercise tips anymore - I just want the brain candy pretty and In Style fits that need much better.