Please...Wesley...why can't I stay?

Fred ,'A Hole in the World'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Emily - Apr 06, 2005 9:38:03 am PDT #1641 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Jessica, just... wow.


Aims - Apr 06, 2005 9:39:42 am PDT #1642 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Fucking ewww.

Be happy. Be healthy. Be both. It is possible.

(on edit: I'm a fucking Cheerio's commercial)


P.M. Marc - Apr 06, 2005 9:40:31 am PDT #1643 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Wow, Jess. That's just...

Repulsive.

I quit buying Self (back in '99) when I realized I was buying it to flog myself for weight gain. (Good days, I'd buy Mode. Bad days, I'd buy Self.)

Fuck it. I'm not letting the Body Image Demons back into my house post-baby. It's been so nice having them gone, I'm going to just tell those fuckers they're evicted.


Jessica - Apr 06, 2005 9:40:59 am PDT #1644 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Yeah, reading it really amped up my determination to bring my own reading material to the gym from now on.


Pix - Apr 06, 2005 9:42:03 am PDT #1645 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

thwump


juliana - Apr 06, 2005 9:46:53 am PDT #1646 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

There was an article in Self*

Yup. Z read that in Walgreen's and promptly ranted for 10 minutes. I used to buy Self until I realized that I didn't need exercise tips anymore - I just want the brain candy pretty and In Style fits that need much better.


Fred Pete - Apr 06, 2005 9:48:26 am PDT #1647 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Ack! I've been there. Some years back, I got a physical through the office (it was a thing that was done back then). The doctor read me the riot act about my weight.

Over the next 6 weeks, I lost 25 pounds. By the end of it, I was so depressed that I wasn't eating at all. Even suicidal.

Soon after, I broke the cycle. Gained half the weight back over the next 2 months. Felt much better.

So, even if losing the jeans size may have been good for her physical health (and based on what Jessica said, it may have been), I can't say that the declining mental health was a fair price.


Jessica - Apr 06, 2005 9:49:53 am PDT #1648 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Lucky is the only "women's" magazine I read these days. It contains nothing but lists and pictures of items I might like to buy, and the articles, such as they are, are little more than "Ooooh, shoes!!!!" It's fabulous.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 06, 2005 9:50:36 am PDT #1649 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

you ok there, Kristin?


P.M. Marc - Apr 06, 2005 9:51:32 am PDT #1650 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Lectures about weight have never helped anyone that I know. I'm certain that somewhere out there, there's a handful of people for whom BMECT holds true, and I've just not met them, but for the rest of us, the lectures do way more harm than good.