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Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

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Susan W. - Apr 05, 2005 7:50:50 am PDT #1422 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Why would they do that? I think they'd more likely just be backup. Why would someone else need/want to deal with the hissyfits? Also, you've put in work, wouldn't you get some part of your fee anyway? I guess what I'm asking is, is that an actual possibility or just a fear?

Probably just a fear. And since this is by far the biggest wedding I've handled so far, and the first with an on-site reception, it might be wise of me to see if one of the others would be willing to drop by for part of the time just to help out with all the fellowship hall usage issues I'm unfamiliar with.

Anyway. Email has been sent. I explained, apologized for the misunderstanding without any groveling or abjectness, and said something to the effect that if the additional expense was a problem, let me know and we'd find a way to work something out.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 05, 2005 7:54:54 am PDT #1423 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Email has been sent. I explained, apologized for the misunderstanding without any groveling or abjectness, and said something to the effect that if the additional expense was a problem, let me know and we'd find a way to work something out.

Right on. Hopefully she won't flip out.


§ ita § - Apr 05, 2005 7:55:25 am PDT #1424 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Hopefully she won't flip out.

Is she a ninja?


Glamcookie - Apr 05, 2005 7:55:48 am PDT #1425 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Jackets never fit me well (always look gigantic) so the shrunken ones might fit like normal. I'm not sure why jackets are big on me - I'm not tiny and I do have boobs.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 05, 2005 7:56:09 am PDT #1426 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Ninja wedding! Susan, just don't make any sudden moves.


Trudy Booth - Apr 05, 2005 8:01:07 am PDT #1427 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Ninjas are mammals.


-t - Apr 05, 2005 8:01:42 am PDT #1428 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I haven't tried on any shrunken jackets and they actually look really good on the models, it's just the name that frightens me.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 05, 2005 8:05:16 am PDT #1429 of 10001
What is even happening?

Susan, if you do have to work something out with her, perhaps you can split the difference--that is, take $30 out of your own fee--not as much of an ouchie to your pocketbook, but she might feel like she's winning.


Glamcookie - Apr 05, 2005 8:07:55 am PDT #1430 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Yeah, "shrunken" anything doesn't sound too nice. Maybe they should have gone with "fitted."


brenda m - Apr 05, 2005 8:11:15 am PDT #1431 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I don't have a jean jacket anymore (I had the same issues DebetEsse does with feeling like I'm wearing a denim suit) but I have a Levi's one in navy blue corduroy that belong to my dad from around the time I was born. Love it. It's barely even faded - I think it spent a couple of decades packed in a box before I unearthed it.