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[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.

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Scrappy - Feb 09, 2005 9:05:27 am PST #9979 of 10002

Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

It depends on why one remains chaste, I think. My mom says a distressing number of her peers spent so much time thinking of sex and sexual feelings as something "bad" to ignore and resist, that when they got married they had a horrible time being sexual with their husbands. There was pain and disgust and all kinds of things which made real emotional intimacy impossible, just when it was most needed. She has several friends who never liked it, and a couple who took years and years before it was pleasurable. Sad.

If sex is seen as something pleasurable which one is choosing not to engage in for personal reasons, then there is less chance of this happening again on such a wide scale like it did in the '50s.

Daisy Jane - Feb 09, 2005 9:05:38 am PST #9980 of 10002

"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I have nothing to say about either cock or purity.

The only two collections new out today that won't end up in the Fug blog. Here and here. Though Lhuillier has some decent fancy dresses in the second half.

In Not Pretty Things I Can't Afford News: My Boss has this habit of talking really loudly, noticably raising his voice if he and someone else are talking at the same time. I hear him doing it on the phone right now, and it's driving me crazy.

juliana - Feb 09, 2005 9:05:42 am PST #9981 of 10002

I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Aren't we cute??

Eeee. Dah. Buh. That cute.

Beverly - Feb 09, 2005 9:05:59 am PST #9982 of 10002

Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Ooh, cuties, ChiKat! I peeked at the other pics, too, and Jen reminds me of SA, a little. And Matt has a William H. Macy thing going on.

DavidS - Feb 09, 2005 9:06:12 am PST #9983 of 10002

"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I made sure this was included in our wedding ceremony. *g*

Us too.

Steph L. - Feb 09, 2005 9:06:55 am PST #9984 of 10002

the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

ChiKat, he reminds me of someone, and I can't think of who.

-t - Feb 09, 2005 9:07:35 am PST #9985 of 10002

I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aren't we cute??

Oh, you most certainly are.

Beverly - Feb 09, 2005 9:08:00 am PST #9986 of 10002

Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Surgery and recovery-ma for Vortex's godson.

Susan W. - Feb 09, 2005 9:09:18 am PST #9987 of 10002

Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Very cute, ChiKat.

P.M. Marc - Feb 09, 2005 9:09:39 am PST #9988 of 10002

So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Chikat, SO CUTE! I love that picture.

I tend to just not have regrets, period, because everything that I've done or experienced, good or bad, has lead me to a specific place, and I'm kind of happy with that place.

Even small things aren't worth regretting. Like, I'd regret buying this house instead of house X, except that I have no idea if the series of events that lead to me being involved in online fandom would have happened if I hadn't been specifically here, and no idea if I'd be having the kid I'm having in ten and a half weeks if the location had shifted.

I'm well aware that many of my choices have been not-so-smart, but they've made me who I am today.

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