Here's pic of me and my sweet, flower-giving-for-no-reason, BF.
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'Just Rewards (2)'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Song of Solomon is in the Bible too, dangit
I made sure this was included in our wedding ceremony. *g*
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Supercute.
It's anti-sex. I think that's wrong. I think it's creepoid Puritanism. It is to my mind - inhumane. Specifically, contrary to human nature. It's about deprivation and denial and guilt.
But what if it isn't about "deprivation and denial and guilt" to the people involved? What if they see chastity as a rational choice (which it can be) and one their god approves of (which it also is, though their god may not = my god or your god or The God)?
Like you, I have a problem with people being made to feel dirty for being human. But the choice to only have sex in marriage, if freely entered into, is as valid as the choice to sleep with a different person every day for 75 years, or anything in-between.
Very, Chikat.
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In a word? Adorable.
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SO cute!!!
It depends on why one remains chaste, I think. My mom says a distressing number of her peers spent so much time thinking of sex and sexual feelings as something "bad" to ignore and resist, that when they got married they had a horrible time being sexual with their husbands. There was pain and disgust and all kinds of things which made real emotional intimacy impossible, just when it was most needed. She has several friends who never liked it, and a couple who took years and years before it was pleasurable. Sad.
If sex is seen as something pleasurable which one is choosing not to engage in for personal reasons, then there is less chance of this happening again on such a wide scale like it did in the '50s.
I have nothing to say about either cock or purity.
The only two collections new out today that won't end up in the Fug blog. Here and here. Though Lhuillier has some decent fancy dresses in the second half.
In Not Pretty Things I Can't Afford News: My Boss has this habit of talking really loudly, noticably raising his voice if he and someone else are talking at the same time. I hear him doing it on the phone right now, and it's driving me crazy.
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Eeee. Dah. Buh. That cute.