Oh, Gud. I'm sorry, hon. Much hugs and ~ma to you.
Oh! I know this one! 'Slaying entails certain sacrifices, blah blah blahbity blah, I'm so stuffy, gimme a scone.'
Buffy ,'Help'
Spike's Bitches 21 Gunn Salute
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
juliana - Jan 13, 2005 5:34:11 am PST #3728 of 10002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
esse - Jan 13, 2005 5:34:45 am PST #3729 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!
Oh, Gud. I'm sorry to hear that.
Hi SA! Would you mind running around the city saying hello to my relatives and assuring them I'm not dead? Thanks ever so. If you could bring back a couple of wins by the Hearts that would be much appreciated too, they're kinda struggling at the moment. Also, have fun!
I'll shout out your not-death from Edinburgh Castle. Will that suit? As for the Hearts, I'm afraid they're screwed. Sorry about that.
As it is, I might pick up something secret and Scotland-y to send to you...
Nora Deirdre - Jan 13, 2005 5:35:44 am PST #3730 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Oh, Gud. I'm sorry.
Pix - Jan 13, 2005 5:37:02 am PST #3731 of 10002
The status is NOT quo.
Gud, I have been there. It is a horrible, unsure feeling. No pressure to talk. Just strength and hope to you that everything will work out in the best possible way, whatever that may be.
Gudanov - Jan 13, 2005 5:38:02 am PST #3732 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping
Thanks
JohnSweden - Jan 13, 2005 5:42:45 am PST #3733 of 10002
I can't even.
Hang in there, Gud.
I'll shout out your not-death from Edinburgh Castle. Will that suit? As for the Hearts, I'm afraid they're screwed. Sorry about that.
The shouting would be lovely. The Hearts thing we'll have to work on. My dad had a trial with them in the 50s, so the maroon is in the blood. I've been all through Tynecastle and had a kick around on the pitch as a lad.
Polter-Cow - Jan 13, 2005 6:05:26 am PST #3734 of 10002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
What the fuck was I fucking thinking? Why the hell couldn't the Ph.D. thing have worked out like it was supposed to? I would be content and labby for the majority of my time until someone told me I wasn't motivated. But at least I knew where I was and what I was doing. I've never written a review paper before. And in a few months, I'm going to have find a job. And soon after that, I have to find a career. How am I supposed to make any money? I don't even know how to write a fucking résumé. I've been in school forever and it's all I know how to do. I'm in unfamiliar waters now and I'm scared the fuck out of my mind.
beathen - Jan 13, 2005 6:11:38 am PST #3735 of 10002
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.
I'm sorry P-C. For what it's worth, you don't need to plan your whole life in a day. One step at a time is the sane way to go.
Gudanov - Jan 13, 2005 6:13:00 am PST #3736 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping
Is there someone at the school you can talk to about finding a job? They can be really helpful.
I'm going to meet with my MIL (who I get along with really well) for lunch to talk about my marriage. That could be a good sign that things can be fixed.
Nora Deirdre - Jan 13, 2005 6:13:14 am PST #3737 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
How am I supposed to make any money? I don't even know how to write a fucking résumé. I've been in school forever and it's all I know how to do. I'm in unfamiliar waters now and I'm scared the fuck out of my mind.
I know this may not help, but I think everyone about to leave school has felt this way, and it will be OK. You will figure it out. Just wait for the panic to cease, and you'll be fine.
Signed,
I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing other than surviving till a couple of years ago. Even now, it's pretty much in flux.