I'm editing a letter a co-worker is writing to an official in Canada (where he is evidently trying to emigrate) and I don't know how he should phrase the greeting. The person to whom he is writing is named Robin . No indication if this person is male or female (so Dear Madame or Dear Sir would be inappropriate). But he is writing directly to this person (so To Whom it Concerns or Dear Sir or Madame would be inappropriate). And he should be fairly formal in his address (that is, Dear Robin would be inappropriate).

Does he have the full name? Dear Robin Lastname would work, I think, even without the honorific.

::gets a bigger box for all these congratulations::

Lisah, I ran into that problem a lot when working for ISI in London; a lot of government officials with names where I had no clue what gender they were, and where screwing it up would have given grave offense.

I finally said, screw it, and actually developed the policy of spending the money and calling the office, to ask for the official's designation.

I got a 1330 on my SAT, 800 verbal, 530 math.

Funny part is, when the college I eventually ended up going to got ahold of my records those scores were somehow reversed.

Made for an interesting counsellor visit.

"What are you thinking of for your major?"

"Theater or communications, probably."

"Whuh?"

"'Whuh?' whuh?"

"But...with your SAT scores...maybe engineering? Physics?"

"What the HELL are you talking about?"

So she showed me. I laughed and laughed and laughed. "Lady, I never got around to taking calculus. I stopped at geometry. Best re-check your facts."

I am enjoying the P-C travelogue very much.

I can't remember my SAT scores. It was enough to get me a free ride at the state school. Likewise on the LSAT. Library school, however, I had to borrow a large sum to attend.

A friend of mine was accepted at Princeton. In her first meeting with whatever counselor, she realized that her recommendation letters had been mixed up with a woman who had the same name. She never figured out if that woman had also been accepted or not, just knew that she wasn't attending Princeton.

Dear Robin Lastname would work, I think, even without the honorific.

I thought of that but it kind of makes it seem as if the letter was computer-generated, you know? It's probably the best option.

The P-C travelogue is fascinating.

I did very meh on the SAT's. Didn't study, didn't prep, and took them on three hours of sleep. I think I got a 1290 or some such. Only years later did it occur to me that I could have actually made an effort and improved my score.

I recently learned that part of my problem with standardized testing may have been the (very undiagnosed) ADHD. My eyes skip around the page and miss little details. I'm not making excuses, but I wish I'd been aware so I could have done something to compensate.

I read Polter's description of the village, think of all the stuff in my house, remember I'm considered below average in income, and realize that some worlds may never meet.

lisah, is there a title you could use? Dear Emigration Officer Lastname or something?

Dear Emigration Officer Lastname or something?

I'll suggest that to him. I don't have the letter he is responding to so I can't search it for clues.

I'm just hoping I don't prevent him from becoming the Canadian of his dreams!