Kaylee: So, uh, how come you don't care where you're going? Book: 'Cause how you get there is the worthier part.

'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 21 Gunn Salute  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Jan 11, 2005 9:58:51 am PST #3166 of 10002
The status is NOT quo.

I am freakishly hungry.


Atropa - Jan 11, 2005 9:59:36 am PST #3167 of 10002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

That's right! Congrats, -t!!


Maria - Jan 11, 2005 10:05:19 am PST #3168 of 10002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Congratulations, -t! There will be plenty of Buffista babies to take over the world now!

Various forms of warmth~ma to Deena, Plei, and Jen.

I *think* I ended up with a 1490 on my SATs, with verbal being higher than math. When I took the PSATs I did well enough to be named a National Merit Finalist. It was enough for a hell of a scholarship from my alma mater. Don't even ask what I scored on the LSATs. I just know it was good enough to get me into law school.


Amy - Jan 11, 2005 10:06:58 am PST #3169 of 10002
Because books.

I want every last one of those cakes.

t /sugar junkie

P-C, you write so beautifully. This should be a travel piece. In, like, a major magazine. The "between squalor and luxury" line was perfect.


-t - Jan 11, 2005 10:07:01 am PST #3170 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm editing a letter a co-worker is writing to an official in Canada (where he is evidently trying to emigrate) and I don't know how he should phrase the greeting. The person to whom he is writing is named Robin . No indication if this person is male or female (so Dear Madame or Dear Sir would be inappropriate). But he is writing directly to this person (so To Whom it Concerns or Dear Sir or Madame would be inappropriate). And he should be fairly formal in his address (that is, Dear Robin would be inappropriate).

Does he have the full name? Dear Robin Lastname would work, I think, even without the honorific.

::gets a bigger box for all these congratulations::


deborah grabien - Jan 11, 2005 10:07:14 am PST #3171 of 10002
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Lisah, I ran into that problem a lot when working for ISI in London; a lot of government officials with names where I had no clue what gender they were, and where screwing it up would have given grave offense.

I finally said, screw it, and actually developed the policy of spending the money and calling the office, to ask for the official's designation.


Miracleman - Jan 11, 2005 10:08:27 am PST #3172 of 10002
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

I got a 1330 on my SAT, 800 verbal, 530 math.

Funny part is, when the college I eventually ended up going to got ahold of my records those scores were somehow reversed.

Made for an interesting counsellor visit.

"What are you thinking of for your major?"

"Theater or communications, probably."

"Whuh?"

"'Whuh?' whuh?"

"But...with your SAT scores...maybe engineering? Physics?"

"What the HELL are you talking about?"

So she showed me. I laughed and laughed and laughed. "Lady, I never got around to taking calculus. I stopped at geometry. Best re-check your facts."


-t - Jan 11, 2005 10:10:48 am PST #3173 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I am enjoying the P-C travelogue very much.


Sparky1 - Jan 11, 2005 10:12:34 am PST #3174 of 10002
Librarian Warlord

I can't remember my SAT scores. It was enough to get me a free ride at the state school. Likewise on the LSAT. Library school, however, I had to borrow a large sum to attend.

A friend of mine was accepted at Princeton. In her first meeting with whatever counselor, she realized that her recommendation letters had been mixed up with a woman who had the same name. She never figured out if that woman had also been accepted or not, just knew that she wasn't attending Princeton.


lisah - Jan 11, 2005 10:14:15 am PST #3175 of 10002
Punishingly Intricate

Dear Robin Lastname would work, I think, even without the honorific.

I thought of that but it kind of makes it seem as if the letter was computer-generated, you know? It's probably the best option.

The P-C travelogue is fascinating.