{{CaBil}} I'm so sorry for your loss.
I got complimented on my hair at work today. Considering I've been trying to grow it out and I personally feel the length is less than optimal for my face, I was still quite flattered. My hair currently looks something like this. Only not tucked behind the ear, although I do occassionally. It'll get tucked more as it grows out. That link of long hair that Cindy linked to is more or less what I'm aiming for.