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Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?  

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tommyrot - Jan 03, 2007 9:19:07 am PST #7930 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

the whole episode is extremely typical for the pseudicide dynamic. The pattern is well established by now and this one goes by the numbers.

What other cases are out there? (Besides the one that Allyson wrote about.)


Nora Deirdre - Jan 03, 2007 9:19:25 am PST #7931 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

question: what's the site that you look up PhDs?


Polter-Cow - Jan 03, 2007 9:19:39 am PST #7932 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

That's a fair point, but again, I think this has mostly been healthy

Yeah, I think this has been more of a diversion of emotional energy, if anything, and this way feels like accomplishing. It's Stage 1 of grief, after all, to an extreme degree.

What other cases are out there? (Besides the one that Allyson wrote about.)

There are gobs. I think Victoria Bitter is a particularly wacked-out case.


Dana - Jan 03, 2007 9:21:54 am PST #7933 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

What other cases are out there?

Oh, lord. There's one about every few months in fandom somewhere. I can check the fandom_wank wiki.

Edit: There are several links at the bottom of this page. [link]

I still argue for spelling it pseudicide, though.


Polter-Cow - Jan 03, 2007 9:23:48 am PST #7934 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

There's a whole list at fake_lj_deaths.


Monique - Jan 03, 2007 9:25:20 am PST #7935 of 10001

The thing I find interesting about Suicide by Internets/Fictitiously Killing Off Family Members is when you read up on them? They all start to sound the same. There's a definite mind-set/type going on.


tommyrot - Jan 03, 2007 9:25:59 am PST #7936 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

There are several links at the bottom of this page.

Thanks - I'll have to read those....


DavidS - Jan 03, 2007 9:30:42 am PST #7937 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

From the LJ on fake deaths.

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Clues to Detection of False Claims
Based on experience with two dozen cases of Munchausen by Internet, I have arrived at a list of clues to the detection of factititous Internet claims. The most important follow:
1. the posts consistently duplicate material in other posts, in books, or on health-related websites;
2. the characteristics of the supposed illness emerge as caricatures;
3. near-fatal bouts of illness alternate with miraculous recoveries;
4. claims are fantastic, contradicted by subsequent posts, or flatly disproved;
5. there are continual dramatic events in the person's life, especially when other group members have become the focus of attention;
6. there is feigned blitheness about crises (e.g., going into septic shock) that will predictably attract immediate attention;
7. others apparently posting on behalf of the individual (e.g., family members, friends) have identical patterns of writing.


tommyrot - Jan 03, 2007 9:33:01 am PST #7938 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Many of those do not apply to Gus.

Really, he didn't mention his disease much (outside of the times he had to go to the hospital). Or am I misremembering?


Nutty - Jan 03, 2007 9:33:10 am PST #7939 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

There's a reason tehy call it Munchausen by Internet. (Sometimes Muchausen by Internet by Proxy, if you're killing off relatives who may or may not exist!) And, after all's said, I always prefer that the Munchausen's among us happen via internet, where no real person is actually ingesting bleach (e.g.).

This always happens when there's a gash in the world here-- we plaster it with hundreds or thousands of posts.

Very much so. And for those of us who are sated, like yours truly, I begin to use the scrolly wheel and/or my dastardly ability to skim. For those who need to keep talking and looking, I understand that impulse and won't chide it until such time as I perceive it turning inward or nasty. For those who don't read Bureaublahblah, they've got to be thinking that we're having the flamewar of all time, when really -- I'm shocked at how polite we're all being.