question: what's the site that you look up PhDs?

That's a fair point, but again, I think this has mostly been healthy

Yeah, I think this has been more of a diversion of emotional energy, if anything, and this way feels like accomplishing. It's Stage 1 of grief, after all, to an extreme degree.

What other cases are out there? (Besides the one that Allyson wrote about.)

There are gobs. I think Victoria Bitter is a particularly wacked-out case.

What other cases are out there?

Oh, lord. There's one about every few months in fandom somewhere. I can check the fandom_wank wiki.

Edit: There are several links at the bottom of this page. [link]

I still argue for spelling it pseudicide, though.

There's a whole list at fake_lj_deaths.

The thing I find interesting about Suicide by Internets/Fictitiously Killing Off Family Members is when you read up on them? They all start to sound the same. There's a definite mind-set/type going on.

There are several links at the bottom of this page.

Thanks - I'll have to read those....

From the LJ on fake deaths.

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Clues to Detection of False Claims
Based on experience with two dozen cases of Munchausen by Internet, I have arrived at a list of clues to the detection of factititous Internet claims. The most important follow:
1. the posts consistently duplicate material in other posts, in books, or on health-related websites;
2. the characteristics of the supposed illness emerge as caricatures;
3. near-fatal bouts of illness alternate with miraculous recoveries;
4. claims are fantastic, contradicted by subsequent posts, or flatly disproved;
5. there are continual dramatic events in the person's life, especially when other group members have become the focus of attention;
6. there is feigned blitheness about crises (e.g., going into septic shock) that will predictably attract immediate attention;
7. others apparently posting on behalf of the individual (e.g., family members, friends) have identical patterns of writing.

Many of those do not apply to Gus.

Really, he didn't mention his disease much (outside of the times he had to go to the hospital). Or am I misremembering?

There's a reason tehy call it Munchausen by Internet. (Sometimes Muchausen by Internet by Proxy, if you're killing off relatives who may or may not exist!) And, after all's said, I always prefer that the Munchausen's among us happen via internet, where no real person is actually ingesting bleach (e.g.).

This always happens when there's a gash in the world here-- we plaster it with hundreds or thousands of posts.

Very much so. And for those of us who are sated, like yours truly, I begin to use the scrolly wheel and/or my dastardly ability to skim. For those who need to keep talking and looking, I understand that impulse and won't chide it until such time as I perceive it turning inward or nasty. For those who don't read Bureaublahblah, they've got to be thinking that we're having the flamewar of all time, when really -- I'm shocked at how polite we're all being.

I like Sep and Snacky's guide to Pseucide

(Comes with kitty picture illustrations!)