Lilah ,'Not Fade Away'
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Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych
Deena, exactly. That's exactly where I am.
The thing that bothers me is the issue of his ... well, death, now that I've had time to think about it. Because it's completely manipulative, whether he's doing it or someone else. Maybe no one asked for money or material help, but it's not cool to screw with people's emotions.
And yeah, now that I've read everyone's thoughts over the last twenty-four hours, I've pretty much turned all the way around on this. Just for the record.
Intelius says the telephone number listed with WHOIS is from Ashland WI.
I believe that info to be wrong, or not the person we're looking for. If you google the area code and whatever you call the next three numbers, all the results are for Cameron and vicinity. Ashland is a ways away. I got the Ashland thing from one search, but Cameron from another.
Or maybe it's a cell # and he moved and kept the same number....
Well heck. I'll do it for that. If it will serve to make anyone on this board feel better, it's worth it to me.
I've already done so. (But I forget the exact name of the company I used - don't think it's the one you mentioned.) They failed to find an immediate match, so they say they'll have the info for me in 48 hours.
Jessica, you had to search without the "G" and only in Wisconsin.
So I bought the basic report and have a confirmed address, no phone number, in Cameron, WI. He's a real person, or at least has a real address with relatively current utility bills.
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KristinT's company is obviously better than mine.
Actually, I did a reverse phone# search on the number on the domain registration (which is the same number Gus gave me).
Ah, okay -- it wasn't letting me search without something in the first name field for some reason.
[Now I see, it was defaulting to "background check" even though I was in the "people search" tab. Weird.]
Jessica, here's the list we're getting.
That link comes up with an empty search form.
eta: OK, I did a search and found the Guy Straley in Cameron.
I'm planning on calling them and asking if a Guy Straley of Cameron, WI has passed away in the last month. If they can't tell me, I think I will request a death certificate.
That could take 3-6 months. [link]
Here's the thing. I could get more info after this initial step--date of birth and public records included. However, it's $49.95. $8 was one thing, but $49.95...I'm tempted to do it just to get the answers and let everyone either let go or mourn in peace, but I'm torn.