No studying? Damn! Next thing they'll tell me is I'll have to eat jelly doughnuts or sleep with a supermodel to get things done around here. I ask you, how much can one man give?

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

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Amy - Jan 02, 2007 11:03:35 am PST #7721 of 10001
Because books.

Well, someone existed. ETA: Or continues to exist. Someone was posting as Gus, in other words. But the facts of Gus's life, as given by him, aren't verifiable -- notably the PhD stuff and the professor at a university stuff.

My husband is quite real, but Google him and you get nothing. He's just never worked in jobs, or participated in online forums, where he would be found.


Pix - Jan 02, 2007 11:04:51 am PST #7722 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

It is a small possibility that he was quite real but wished to continue to remain anonymous and "Guy Straley" is also a pseudonym.
I keep hoping this is the case.

Me too.

The whole situation just makes me sad.


Allyson - Jan 02, 2007 11:05:07 am PST #7723 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

So no one ever talked to Gus on the phone or met him then?

What was that weird 4th of July thing where people were invited to his place but he disappeared?


DavidS - Jan 02, 2007 11:06:11 am PST #7724 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm going to get all pedantic and note that it'd be pseuicide. Because, come on, it totally sounds better anyway.

I don't like that coinage because there's no verbal distinction. Dammit!

So no one ever talked to Gus on the phone or met him then?

No.

What was that weird 4th of July thing where people were invited to his place but he disappeared?

That's when a lot of red flags went up.


Monique - Jan 02, 2007 11:06:11 am PST #7725 of 10001

Children of: Penlind, a.k.a. no-really-my-husband's-real-name-is-Riley-Finn.

Yes! I knew I was forgetting something vital about the husband who was too good to be true.

I also remember the thing that impressed me with the Penlind situation was how impressive it was back then to watch people fan out and break the story down. It's a lot harder to create a feasible fake story than one would think, I remember realizing. Because even though you may think you're safely in a one-note town, claiming to be part of some obscure field? In an Internet forum there's always someone who knows someone who can call you on your crap.


tommyrot - Jan 02, 2007 11:06:28 am PST #7726 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

So no one ever talked to Gus on the phone or met him then?

Nope.

What was that weird 4th of July thing where people were invited to his place but he disappeared?

Heh - I mentioned that upthread. He was in Switzerland and forgot about it. That's when he adopted the "sheepish weremonkey" tagline.


SailAweigh - Jan 02, 2007 11:07:01 am PST #7727 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

He was supposedly in Korea during that time. He apologized for forgetting when he "came back." Damn well ought to have since I bowed out of the annual family pilgrimage to Door County for it.


Pix - Jan 02, 2007 11:07:24 am PST #7728 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Allyson, the discussion starts here: Topic!Cindy "Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?" Jan 1, 2007 5:35:16 pm PST if you have time to go back.


brenda m - Jan 02, 2007 11:07:42 am PST #7729 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

What was that weird 4th of July thing where people were invited to his place but he disappeared?

Speaking just to this one issue, that never really pinged me as weird because it just seemed more like one of those things htat happen all the time where you toss an idea around but it just never goes anywhere. There was no Flanvention or whatever going on there.

Damn well ought to have since I bowed out of the annual family pilgrimage to Door County for it.

Or, perhaps I wasn't paying very much attention. Nevermind.


tommyrot - Jan 02, 2007 11:08:00 am PST #7730 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

He was supposedly in Korea during that time. He apologized for forgetting when he "came back."

Oh, Korea. OK. That rings a bell.