That's actually what I was thinking, too, Trudy. Gus has been a part of this community for a long time, we knew he was ill, and I just can't imagine that she, or anyone on his behalf, would post something like that here if he hadn't passed away.
'Time Bomb'
Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?
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Its nice if we find his obit and it suggests a charity.
It didn't occur to me that it was a ruse. I was just hoping to find an obit to see if it specified a charity.
Trudy, for the record, that is public information--the site Jessica linked to is asking for a code to prevent script-scraping, but most sites will just provide all the info.
I'm not weighing in on whether or not it's appropriate, just wanting to resolve a misperception.
I but don't feel any need for confirmation. Gus not being here is enough for me to want a thread and enough for me to contribute to a charity in his name. Nobody has asked for anything for themselves as a result of this, so I'm not overly concerned about a ruse.
More because I wanted to find out more about his life away from the board, I did a little poking around for an obituary, and didn't find anything yet. It would be nice to see if someone else finds one.
Thanks, ita.
Didn't mean to cause any offense, Ginger, I was just startled seeing personal information. Thanks for not taking any.
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Far far greater risk of hurting someone terribly by posting that than by letting grown-ups figure things out for themselves or via back chanel.
Seriously.
I think this will cause a lot of hurt and dissension in the future days, but I want to pop up and say, thanks Cindy for posting that; I am thinking along the same lines, and I know you've been burned before by Penlind. But I want to ask people to not be offended if people have different reactions to the announcement that Gus died. For some of us it has been shocking; for others it immediately pinged their skeptical antennae. But it doesn't have to become personally divisive.
Trudy, please don't attack Cindy over kimi's feelings. We know Cindy; I have no idea who kimi is.
I've never met Cindy or Kimi, actually.
I know Kimi could stumble on that and be hurt terribly. I know Cindy could have the same conversation discretely.
There is no reason to risk pain here.