I think a wake thread is a great idea. I've been getting all teary-eyed over the various posts in Bitches, Natter, and Goodbye-Good Riddance, but I'd like to have a more formal place to do it. One to go back to and find it all in one place.
'Beneath You'
Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?
A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.
Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych
Me too, Sail. I was always happy to see Gus posting and would love to share memories with everyone.
David, I hate like hell that we need such a thread, but it's a splendid idea, and I'm all for it.
I think it's a great idea, too.
I'm all for it.
Opening a thread to share our thoughts and memories of Gus is a fine idea. That, or seeing the memories scattered among the threads, either way works for me. I'd rather not do a lightbulbs vote thing though. Can we just go for a drunken consensus?
I consense with Laura.
Personally, I'd put the memorial in the Firefly thread, (because I'd want my own in the Buffy thread), but yes to No Lightbulb discussion/vote, regardless.
Laura is wise.
I was just coming in to suggest a wake thread!
I think if we opened it for the wake and then left it open for... a few days? a week? the idea wouldn't be to not discuss it everywhere, but to gather together as best we can and honor him specifically in one place.
I'm thinking the wake could begin on the 17th (that's one month after his death) at 5:00 pm board time. We could toast and talk and cry for a few hours. And people who couldn't make it could add theirs later. And after a set time we could close it and our discussions of Gus could return to our every day conversation.
I'd like to organize a donation. I'm thinking Oxfam would be good unless Kimi indicates otherwise or someone else can think of something perfect. I can put something in Beep Me and, depending what the donations come to, pick a critter and take donations until the wake.
Oh, and I absolutely agree on just doing this by concensus. It seems so stilted to vote about mourning rituals.