Jayne (Husband): Oh, I think you might wanna reconsider that last part. See, I married me a powerful ugly creature. Mal (Wife): How can you say that? How can you shame me in front of new people? Jayne (Husband): If I could make you purtier, I would. Mal (Wife): You are not the man I met a year ago.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Bureaucracy 3: Oh, so now you want to be part of the SOLUTION?  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych


Jesse - Feb 12, 2006 4:01:58 pm PST #6367 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

If anything, I think it just probably implanted the name 'Buffistas' with 'cool fandom news', which is probably not a bad thing.

Actually, I bet if you did a poll, a lot of people here would think that is a bad thing. Me, I think it's a neutral thing, but barn door horse, etc.


Kristen - Feb 12, 2006 4:40:51 pm PST #6368 of 10001

I'm in the barn door horse camp, myself.


DavidS - Feb 12, 2006 4:59:41 pm PST #6369 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Tim has said to me before (many many many years ago), anything he puts out on a public forum is okay to redistribute elsewhere.

FWIW, I've always gotten this vibe from Tim. He knows when to keep it secret, and he's not afraid to defend his views, and he's not upset when people disagree. He's savvy enough to know this is public, even when he's having friendly discourse.


Got Life - Feb 12, 2006 5:13:44 pm PST #6370 of 10001
Life is eternal, Love is immortal, and death is only an illusion.

I tend to think what you say on the internet is up for public viewing. And everything makes rounds. But sanctuarys should not be invaded for agenda's by the crazed fans.

Tim, from all the emails I have ever gotten back from him, has no problem setting the record strait, speaking his mind, and being quiet when the muse does not suit him to talk.

I also think there is a reason why people have gone out of their way to not link Buffista's in the past. Respect and the the feeling that if it is meant to be known by the genral fanbase it will find it's way out without disturbing the balance elsewhere.


Jessica - Feb 12, 2006 5:26:10 pm PST #6371 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

It's a very fuzzy distinction, but I think of this place as a community, and Whedonesque as a fandom news source. It makes me uncomfortable to see our posts treated as news, rather than as parts of a conversation among friends.

It's not about how public or not the board is -- we're none of us ignorant about how the internet works -- it's about something much more intangible, which makes it difficult to defend. I think the only polite thing to do is to ask permission before linking to someone's posts.


Allyson - Feb 12, 2006 6:54:26 pm PST #6372 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Would it make any difference if Joss suddenly posted news about a Spike movie in Bitches and that was Whedonesqued?

Not a challenge, I'm just wondering if Minearverse is being treated differently as a sub-community, like, are there different expectations for different threads?


§ ita § - Feb 12, 2006 6:56:59 pm PST #6373 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Not to me. Anyone who's posting stuff here they feel weird about the world seeing is taking a big risk.


Allyson - Feb 12, 2006 7:00:03 pm PST #6374 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Fair enough.


NoiseDesign - Feb 12, 2006 7:01:27 pm PST #6375 of 10001
Our wings are not tired

My take on it is that if you think anything here is in any way private, you're fooling yourself.


meara - Feb 12, 2006 7:05:03 pm PST #6376 of 10001

Anyone who's posting stuff here they feel weird about the world seeing is taking a big risk.

Well, yes and no. I mean...if Joss came and posted about a Spike movie in Bitches, and suddenly we were deluged there? I'd be startled and probably try to go back and re-read what I've said in the past couple weeks to check myself. Might even delete one or two things. Sure, technically I'm not putting anything out there that I'd die if someone found out, but...