I am a very, very firm believer in the onus being on the writer, no matter how long they've been around.

It's not just a question of newbies. I think the sensitivity on this issue is such that even jokes among people we know to be joking will make some of us uncomfortable.

Anyway, I wouldn't expect that we'll have a ton of filtering jokes. I'm just against saying "Do it and you'll be warned!" I liked the first part of Jon's proposed wording: "announcing you've filtered someone is considered extremely rude". As for a warning, we've laid out grounds for a warning in the ettiquette: "Consistent demon-like behavior may earn a warning from the Stompy Feet." I think that covers it.

I think it needs to be clear that saying you're filtering someone counts as "demon-like behavior".

As opposed to how clear the criteria for "demon like" board behavior is now?

I'm in favor of not specifying. If it becomes a large issue, then reconsider.

I'd rather have cultural rather than official enforcement. I think a round of "Dude, that's rude" would be sufficient in most cases. If it's not - then I expect other problems are going on that would bring it up on the stompy radar.

I'm all for the civil discourse, and I would want everybody to treat filtering seriously - much like warnings. We don't joke about warnings here because we've all got the bruises from the disciplinary actions we've taken.

I would think that threats of filtering would be treated the way personal insults or hateful language are treated here: "That's incredibly inappropriate" or "That's rude. Please don't do that." or perhaps with newbies "We don't talk about filtering here and we don't use it as a way of sniping or backbiting. It's a tool, but we expect you to use it with discretion. Announcing who you've filtered is the height of rudeness."

Wouldn't that be sufficient in almost all instances? And when it isn't, again, I'd have to believe other demon like behavior was going on.

I think it needs to be clear that saying you're filtering someone counts as "demon-like behavior".

That's not covered by calling it "extremely rude"?

The other thing I was just thinking about in the shower (shut up) is whether we have to say that the filter is not an excuse for people to behave badly. You can't say to someone "I'm filtering you!" and you can't say "If you don't like what I'm saying, just filter me!"

You can't say to someone "I'm filtering you!" and you can't say "If you don't like what I'm saying, just filter me!"

Good point, Dana.

Does that sort of thing happen in other forums? I've not seen it, but then I don't hang out at too many other forums where it's an option.

I'm pretty sure it happened at Table Talk.

Yeah, it happened endlessly at Table Talk.