Seriously I think it is a parental responsibility to know what your kids are watching on tv and reading in books.

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This works until the children reach school age and begin borrowing books from friends and watching movies at school and at their friends' houses.

I was very shocked to have my 8-year-old retelling the plot of JAWS. He hadn't actually seen it, but a contemporary had and had told him all about it.

You can't control all the inputs in your kid's life. You can keep an eye on what happens under your own roof, but that's it.

Boy, are those parents setting themselves up for possible surprises in, say, 20 or so years.

"So, Mister and Mrs. Menendez, how do you feel Lyle and Erik are responding to your parenting techniques?"

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You can't control all the inputs in your kid's life. You can keep an eye on what happens under your own roof, but that's it.

Yup. Once they walk out the door and into a school building, you get to balance and counter-balance, and that's all you get to do.

Yet another reason why "how dare you tell my child there's such a thing as homosexuality!" is as stupid and futile a sentence uttered under these American skies. Kids are people; they move in the world.

Yes. Kids talk about that stuff a lot too...they don't always know what they are talking about, but I think school is where I learned about "gay"

I think it's fair to teach your children your beliefs and that it isn't diametrically opposed to bringing up a child who is open-minded and tolerant of other people's beliefs. I also think that if your child's public school is going to have children books that feature homosexual relationships in its library, and this bothers you, than pull your child out and send him/her to a private/parochial school.

Yet another reason why "how dare you tell my child there's such a thing as homosexuality!" is as stupid and futile a sentence uttered under these American skies. Kids are people; they move in the world.

I think you do have the right to determine at what age you teach your kids about homosexuality. For some parents a children's book written for 6 year olds is not the age when they wanted to have that talk.

Ginger, yes, you do predate me a bit, but my folks live by 22nd and Lover's Lane; my cousins went to Eugene Field, and I used to walk out dog past it on fall evenings.

It's still very much there, and FWIW, won, I think, top elementary school in MO award of some kind last year.

For some parents a children's book written for 6 year olds is not the age when they wanted to have that talk.

But those same parents are going to be equally aggrieved by front-page stories on gay marriage (indeed, many of them are) and by men holding hands in public.

As a parent, your job is to say "Other people believe that X, but we don't." You say that quite a lot. I moved from the Bible Belt to California to reduce the number of times I would have to say that.

Seriously I think it is a parental responsibility to know what your kids are watching on tv and reading in books.

I did say know -- not control.

Erin, we lived about four blocks from the school and about six blocks from this local ice cream store that everyone went to. It was across the street from a newstand with comic books, and I'd walk there every Saturday, buy an ice cream cone and comic books, and walk back eating ice cream and reading.

at 6 - you should be at the library with your child. t horrified librarian that see 4 yr olds in the library with 7 yr old siblings 'in charge'.