'Destiny'
A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.
Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych
In which choice is the wooby present? That's the one I'm going with.
The wooby is always present!
...I felt the TT Buffy thread was pretty cold, but interesting enough to keep throwing my two cents in every now and again. God blinked, and then I was one of the most active posters there.
I am not an active poster, but I genuinely love when a topic, and the subsequent discussion of, attracts my interest. What I hate is when that all ends. Change is bad. Static is good. ;)
And I would also hope that the people who are reading the posts are doing me the courtesy of also assuming that they can't read between my lines.
Are you talking about new people, or all people? Because I was only talking about the new. Knowledge of personality gained from more interaction with a person can't help but add subtext, and I'd wager it's most often correct and un-noted colour.
However, as a NewPoster on any board, I don't much consider it a two way street. It's my job to learn and to earn, and their job to ... well, not do that much, really. Not treat me badly as a newbie, but they can't create a relationship out of thin air just because I registered, and what are we if not relationships and the discussions between?
Change is bad Static is good. ;)
except where diapers and electricity are concerned...
/natter.
And I would also hope that the people who are reading the posts are doing me the courtesy of also assuming that they can't read between my lines.
'Zactly. Assuming one can divine tone leads to more problems online than nearly anything else. Derails a lot of constructive discussion too.
Newbie or long-termer, reasoned debate can be followed without the need for tone.
And when does a newbie become a 'normal'? 1 week? A month? 4 months? 2 years? Just wondering.
except where diapers and electricity are concerned...
Narrows eyes
I don't like your tone... ;)
I think all of us who feel we know each other impose our thoughts on each other's posts. Sometimes we are off the mark. I've thought people were joking when they weren't, people I know, people tonight.
Let's add it to the list of things to try and be better at. It's amazing any of us have people to even talk to. t /frustrated sarcasm.
I don't like your tone... ;)
Neither do I.
I think it might be the constant humming, or perhaps the low-bass rumble...or maybe the really unpalatable thing is that annoying ring of truth.
*whoop-ah!* ;)
I think all of us who feel we know each other impose our thoughts on each other's posts. Sometimes we are off the mark. I've thought people were joking when they weren't, people I know, people tonight.
Telepathy would solve this in a jiffy!
There's tone in writing. I'm puzzled at the belief that there isn't.
There's tone in writing. I'm puzzled at the belief that there isn't.
and I'm puzzled that you are puzzled (which sets the tone).
I'm with Allyson. ALL tone isn't in writing, but there's tone.
Otherwise, why would we have to reread e-mails before sending them out to make sure they're appropriately light/conciliatory/formal/casual/corporate? The content's a given, but the context in which it's set -- that can certainly vary.