It is with sadness that I have to agree. This board is precious to me and it hurts me that members feel uncomfortable with his presence.
Sometimes I miss having powers... Oh. Oh! I know what this is! This is peer pressure! Any second now you're gonna make me smoke tobacco and--and have drugs!
Anya ,'Showtime'
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Laura - Oct 15, 2016 2:01:41 pm PDT #9765 of 10289
Our wings are not tired.
Kat - Oct 15, 2016 2:03:34 pm PDT #9766 of 10289
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
Any consistently behavior that drives multiple users away shows an egregious pattern and needs to be censured.
Dana - Oct 15, 2016 2:04:22 pm PDT #9767 of 10289
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
As far as I'm concerned, I haven't had any problems with him. But I don't feel like those who've had should feel obligated to post any details they don't want to. As a society, I hope we're getting past the point of seeing woman after woman say "This happened to me," and disbelieving them.
Jesse - Oct 15, 2016 2:05:18 pm PDT #9768 of 10289
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Agreed. If I had heard all of the stories I heard today at the time, I would have said this years ago, I hope.
Or, frankly, my tolerance for poor behavior from men is at an all-time low right now. That doesn't make the behavior any less poor.
Hil R. - Oct 15, 2016 2:07:19 pm PDT #9769 of 10289
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
There are several people who'd left the board who I really missed, and I just learned today that they left at least partially because of him, though I don't know the specifics.
erikaj - Oct 15, 2016 2:12:43 pm PDT #9770 of 10289
Always Anti-fascist!
I'm torn, because he got on my nerves a lot, but this is a "win" I can't relish.
Beverly - Oct 15, 2016 2:15:37 pm PDT #9771 of 10289
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
As far as I'm concerned, I haven't had any problems with him. But I don't feel like those who've had should feel obligated to post any details they don't want to. As a society, I hope we're getting past the point of seeing woman after woman say "This happened to me," and disbelieving them.
Dana speaks for me. I've no need for testimony, you have my consent to ban.
JZ - Oct 15, 2016 2:16:26 pm PDT #9772 of 10289
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
What Hil said. I've never had any problems with him myself, at all, but it's deeply upsetting to know that other long-time Buffistas have come to feel so uncomfortable around him that they have chosen to exclude themselves from the community. And it's important because, as a community, we make it such a priority to connect F2F as well as on the board; if multiple people are opting out of engaging at all in order to avoid one person, that's a problem for the whole community.
erikaj - Oct 15, 2016 2:22:07 pm PDT #9773 of 10289
Always Anti-fascist!
I just wanted to make it clear that I'm not, like, licking my chops over this...I wouldn't even consider our twice-yearly blow-outs anything to be concerned about...however, I'm not astounded about what I've been hearing so I guess I'd support the ban.
Dana - Oct 15, 2016 2:22:59 pm PDT #9774 of 10289
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I'm sure no one is happy to be doing this. I'm certainly not.