Remember the last time a VIP posted and the board trippled?

That was Joss, Trudy. Joss is completely different than anyone or anything else.

So what we want is for Joss to never ever post here again?

I think ten is too easy, there are plenty of groups of ten here. Why not a group of twenty or thirty?

So what we want is for Joss to never ever post here again?

I'm confused about this statement.

Why not a group of twenty or thirty?

Why not 802?

Well, whereas 10 seems too easy, 802 seems a mite too difficult.

20 or 30 is a bit closer to 10 and yet unlikely to be people over a beer who got annoyed with Poster X and three days later flip out when X says something obnoxious yet not outrageous.

So what we want is for Joss to never ever post here again?

I don't care if he does or not. I don't think he will, that's not the same thing.

If anything, I think ten is erring on the side of caution.

Trudy, I think 10 was picked because it seemed to intuitively point to a real problem as opposed to a personality conflict. If we have one poster offending a minimum of 10 + 1 Buffistas to the point where the are all requesting that poster be warned, then that poster is demonstrating enough demon-like behavior to merit a warning. The poster is causing trouble and upsetting 10 people who aren't causing trouble.

Even those posters most in favor of banning our previously banned posters, have never lodged a complaint against another Buffista. We don't all madly love each other, but we love the community well enough to bother to distinguish between our personal (dis)taste, and an offense against the community.

It's like the Wolfram example that was brought up in bureau. Nobody thinks Wolfram should be warned or even threatened with a warning. He tried to clarify the bureaucracy m.o., and people were then frank with him where they thought he missed the boat.

Your posts do reference a concern Gar had. Gar was similarly concerned that an influx of new posters could bring with it an influx of sort of an organized gang of trolls.

Personally, I have enough confidence in us, that if a gang of newbies wanted to warn someone because they used a swear, the rest of us would just refuse despite this motion of msbelle's.

However, maybe a way to handle it, is to allow this motion to go up for a vote, and then you can make a motion to open lightbulb, and you can develop a ballot for an opt out sort of clause that allows us to cover our asses, in case (some day) something like that happens?

Making rules to chuck them if they become inconvenient (just IMAGINE that discussion) seems unwise.

And having a second vote to modify a fresh vote has already been problematic.

Making rules to chuck them if they become inconvenient (just IMAGINE that discussion) seems unwise.

I'm sorry that what I was suggesting came across as such. I was trying to suggest a compromise, because even though I don't share your concern to the same level you do, since two people I respect (you and Gar) have both mentioned it, I'd like to see it at least discussed.

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Also, these aren't rules, they are procedures.

Here's my take. It's icky to tell people they aren't wanted. But we do it all the time. You stop returning somebody's calls. You say "Oh, I'm sorry, I can't do lunch this week." You say "Thanks for asking, Sally, but I'm not going out much lately."

In an open online environment, there is no way to quietly drift away from somebody. If somebody shows up and starts exhibiting bad manners, and is unwilling to correct the manners, you have two choices: tolerate the behavior or explicitly banish the person.

Those are the only two choices. You can't be discreet. You have to publicly say "I don't want to be around you; please go away."

Many of us (me, ita, Allyson, Dana and no doubt others) have seen what happens to an online community that cannot exclude people. The community winds up being destroyed, *not least* by the constant bickering about What To Do About That Person. You will never get 100 people to unanimously agree to exclude the 101st; that really would be groupthink. But if you get 50 people to agree that the 101st is intolerable, that is a strong sign that there's a fundamental conflict, and probably one that can't be resolved.

We can't include everybody. Attempting to include everybody will inevitably lead to people's leaving.

I think maybe the rules could include something about the Stompies having the power to decide that a warning vote was an attempt to troll the board and call for a new vote, but that this power was to be used only in extraordinary circumstances? I don't know.