Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Voting Discussion: We're Screwing In Light Bulbs AIFG!  

We open it up, we talks the talk, we votes, we shuts it down. This thread is to free up Bureaucracy for daily details as we hammer out the Big Issues towards a vote. Open only when a proposal has been made and seconded according to Buffista policy (Which we voted on!). If this thread is closed, hie thee to Bureaucracy instead!


JohnSweden - Apr 15, 2005 10:28:09 am PDT #5663 of 10289
I can't even.

We maintain a culture where we like to know with whom we are speaking, and SPs are a deliberate subversion of this culture by posters who know that.

Bwah! Yes, in the nefarious pursuit of what? Something weighty, purposeful and undermining, right? A few laughs, entertaining some of the other posters for a little while? Shit, it can't be that simple. It has to be conspiratorial. C'mon, you differently-identitied (you thought I'd forgotten, right?) -- TELL US WHO YOU ARE PUPPETTING FOR?


msbelle - Apr 15, 2005 10:31:45 am PDT #5664 of 10289
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

For the record, we consensed about all of the above without voting on them. For the record, I am a consensetarian whenever it saves labor.

Those discussions took place prior to voting on the board. specifically in 12/02 and voting was not started until 2/03.

As I said earlier, not one written thing about "we don't do this" or "if you do this, this will happen" has been added to the FAQ or the Etiquette page without a vote since voting was approved - not as far as I can find.


§ ita § - Apr 15, 2005 10:32:59 am PDT #5665 of 10289
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

What surprises me most about this discussion is how reluctant people are to letting go of the fact that not everyone shares their visceral reactions. I'm pretty sure I'm offended by stuff msbelle's not, and vice versa.

I don't care. I'm not second-guessing her sensitivity -- I'm going to take on faith that she's sincere, and neither mock nor try to argue her out of it.

Now, do I care enough about how *I* feel about the topic that offends her versus my concern with her feelings? A completely different question. Is not offending her too difficult for me to do? Important enough for me to do? That's between my and my god. One man's meat is another man's poison.

It's not a new idea.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 15, 2005 10:34:57 am PDT #5666 of 10289
What is even happening?

Oh my word. JohnSweden made me get Coke up my nose. The cola kind.

You know, it occurs to me I am less bothered by this, because it happened at the Bronze all the time. We had Buffy's bra straps posting, and leather pants, and all sorts of wacky, and it was darn funny, even when we could use anonymizers, and couldn't tell by IP number, who was who. I know this is important to some of us. I'm sorry if I've forgotten that, along the way. I just want us to stay fun, but since this particular thing isn't fun for some of us, there's probably no way out but through. See you on the other side of the ballot.

I don't care. I'm not second-guessing her sensitivity -- I'm going to take on faith that she's sincere, and neither mock nor try to argue her out of it.

I don't know if people were trying to talk people out of their sensitivities, so much as talk them out of making rules/points of conduct, based on them, when there'd been no abuse (discomfort--yes, abuse--no). But if it came across as mocking or arguing out of, or second guessing sensitivities, I am sorry for that, too.


Nutty - Apr 15, 2005 10:35:18 am PDT #5667 of 10289
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

Those discussions took place prior to voting on the board. specifically in 12/02 and voting was not started until 2/03.

Oh fine Miss Accurate. I was afraid even as I typed that this was so.

not one written thing about "we don't do this" or "if you do this, this will happen" has been added to the FAQ or the Etiquette page without a vote since voting was approved - not as far as I can find.

Filling this gap was the original intent of the Lawspeak. Very happy to go forward and make it all official-like and useful in its new form.


Scrappy - Apr 15, 2005 10:37:13 am PDT #5668 of 10289
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

JohnSw--really, dude, so ya think it'll be less funny if the person IDs themself in their profile? I don't.

I've been one two other boards where trolls have signed up under multiple sockpuppets and caused all sorts of badness. When called on it, they lied or called the accuser paranoid. Someone created a log-in name with one letter different than a poster and then parodied that poster's style in several days of posts without revealing who they were. It was done solely to embarass that poster and it wasn't pretty. This stuff hasn't happened here, and I hope it never does, but it does happen and this ID solution elegantly forestalls it.


bon bon - Apr 15, 2005 10:42:35 am PDT #5669 of 10289
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

Bwah! Yes, in the nefarious pursuit of what? Something weighty, purposeful and undermining, right? A few laughs, entertaining some of the other posters for a little while? Shit, it can't be that simple. It has to be conspiratorial. C'mon, you differently-identitied (you thought I'd forgotten, right?) -- TELL US WHO YOU ARE PUPPETTING FOR?

OK, I think you're making fun of me here because I was trying to sum up what's generally annoying about SPs in a neutral way. But you're overreacting.


msbelle - Apr 15, 2005 10:51:00 am PDT #5670 of 10289
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

oh oh oh let me play the role of something that I am not - look look while I do it without changing my name.

Now we don't want to invalidate anyone's feelings. Not liking the sockpuppets is just as valid as thinking anyone who would want to ask for ID on multiple log-ins is a humorless reactionary.

let's all hold hands and play like we're all friends.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 15, 2005 11:16:46 am PDT #5671 of 10289
What is even happening?

Can there be cookies, and then a good nap?


Polter-Cow - Apr 15, 2005 11:20:22 am PDT #5672 of 10289
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I've got a juice box with your name on it, Cindy.