I have said it before (in email, naturally) and I'll say it again, though we've never met. I heart you Nilly.
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Nilly, you are always a such a sweetheart; I mean that almost literally -- a sweet, kind heart.
You are cherished, Nilly. The way this has been handled recently reassures me that this will be my safe place for a long time to come. Yes, I am saddened that there was conflict I was oblivious to, but it did come to light and is being handled appropriately. Also, seeing all the familiar faces is a delight so I am going to focus on that as a highly desirable side effect.
You are cherished, Nilly.
This. And adored.
Everything that Laura said so well.
{{{Nilly and Laura}}}
In some ways, I'm having flashbacks to when Gus was outed as a sock puppet: the same sense of betrayal, the same sense of "all the pieces were there, why didn't we put them together?
A few months ago, P-C did something to someone who wasn't me that upset me, and I had to talk to someone about it. Someone not part of this community, because I didn't think I could talk about it here, but whatever, we've addressed that.
Anyway, his reaction was "wow, your imaginary friends site seems to be a greenhouse for growing people with mild internet fame and major sociopathy."
I had to admit that when framed between Gus and P-C it does look that way, but I was adamant that the majority and core of people are wonderful.
I'm not sure two in 15-some years is dispositive. Scientifically speaking. For a site that is not exactly prominent but also is not closed or restricted, it's pretty damn good.
And now that I think of it, didn't Gus also arrive in the wake of some famous person posting or other? That said, lots of good folks found us through Tim as well.
{{{Nilly}}} So good to hear from you!
Statistically I think 2 out of however many active posters we've had over that time (it has to be in the hundreds, right?) is way, way below the amount you'd encounter with just a random sampling of the population.
Good to see you, Nilly.
I have to agree that the true problems have been incredibly few and far between, which is phenomenal for an internet community. I think the nature of our community just means that it feels much more personal when it does occur.
Nilly! So good to "see" you.
I think the nature of our community just means that it feels much more personal when it does occur.
Yes, this.