I am not...I am not the damsel in distress. I am not some case. I have to work this. I've lived in a cave for 5 years in a world where they killed my kind like cattle. I am not going to be cut down by some monster flu. I am better than that. What a wonder...how very scared I am.

Fred ,'A Hole in the World'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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askye - Oct 22, 2025 7:00:25 am PDT #9851 of 9856
Thrive to spite them

Yay for Tim ringing the bell!

Lisah I'm so sorry.

The beach has been great. Had a nice visit with my aunt yesterday. She told me Jack is doing well as can be expected. He has been getting shots every 4 months as his only cancer treatment and then cancer is gone or mostly gone from his bones. It is still growing in his prostate and he is tired a lot but it's a better prognosis than expected

I mentioned Tim to her and she said that two of Dad's cousins (brothers) had throat cancer. But different kinds. One of them who had the lost aggressive form finished his chemo months ago and is only now on soft foods. I'm glad Tim didn't have to deal with that.

I finally put on on swimsuit. It's swim shorts and a tankini top. And of course they fit better than 2 years ago but it surprised me. It's a long top and before it barely came down to the top of the shorts because of my stomach and now the hem sits at my hips. The shorts are loose enough on the legs to be a skirt .

Dad went back to town Sun but he is coming back down today and stay a few days before he has to go back to town


Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 22, 2025 7:12:06 am PDT #9852 of 9856
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I'm sorry, lisah.

Great that Tim got to ring the done with chemo bell!


brenda m - Oct 22, 2025 7:13:45 am PDT #9853 of 9856
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Thank you to yesterday’s GLP-1 discussion for making me realize I was confusing mgs for units and basically micro-dosing the past month. And wondering why I was feeling no particular effects, side- or otherwise.

I lost almost 85 lbs doing a reduced carb (Optavia, not keto) program over a couple of years, got within a hairs-breadth of my goal and then somehow last year just lost the drive. I’ve put about 25 of it back on and keep starting over and over and it’s just not sticking. So I’m trying this. Ok, now I’m trying this.

I’m off to Anaheim next week with a stopover in Temecula to do some wining (not whining) with old friends. I was really hoping to have made some progress by now but apparently progress is for chumps who read the directions.


-t - Oct 22, 2025 8:22:07 am PDT #9854 of 9856
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I should go visit Temecula again, last time I was there was over 30 years ago and they weren't really in the wine business yet


meara - Oct 22, 2025 8:59:43 am PDT #9855 of 9856

Brenda, the only time I’d managed to deliberately loose weight before GLP1 was on Optavia (when it was still whatever the old name was) but eventually I put it back on when I wasn’t staying on their foods. (And then added more, with the pandemic and a lot of comfort eating!)


-t - Oct 22, 2025 9:07:50 am PDT #9856 of 9856
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I had meant to bring my ballot with me on Saturday and vote before or after the rally but I did not manage to pack it. I did bring it to work yesterday, and then forgot all about it until I was packing up my stuff to go home, but I was able to fill it out right then and put the envelope in the corporate outgoing mail bin so ultimately a win, Although I shouldn't count is as truly complete until I get the confirmation text that my ballot has been counted (I am slightly disturbed they can do that but also love it)


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