Well, a gathering is brie, mellow song stylings; shindig, dip, less mellow song stylings, perhaps a large amount of malt beverage, and hootenanny, well, it's chock full of hoot, just a little bit of nanny.

Oz ,'Beneath You'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Aug 02, 2025 10:53:13 am PDT #8583 of 13121
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy Birthday Shir!

Yesterday was our 21st anniversary. We exchanged cards and gifts, but that was the extant of the celebrations. Yesterday was also the "official" birthday of the kitties, who are no longer considered kittens.

Healing ~ma to Tim.

My knee is back to what passes for normal for me. I stopped wearing the brace Tuesday and finished the prescription ibuprofen yesterday.


JenP - Aug 02, 2025 12:16:05 pm PDT #8584 of 13121

Such a beautiful, pleasant day in the DC region today. I've spent a good portion just lying on the porch loveseat thing under an umbrella listening to birds and neighborhood sounds. So relaxing.


sj - Aug 02, 2025 2:49:25 pm PDT #8585 of 13121
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Happy Birthday, Shir!!!


erikaj - Aug 02, 2025 3:34:26 pm PDT #8586 of 13121
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Oh, yes, happy birthday. Glad you had a good time with your friends. I used to wonder, in high school and college, before everything in the Middle East got so stark and one-sided, how people did, you know, all their other stuff with all of that in the background. sadly, I think we're finding out and it SUCKS. So not a fan.


Susan W. - Aug 02, 2025 5:11:30 pm PDT #8587 of 13121
The wide universe is the ocean I travel, and the earth is my blue boat home

I've just skimmed through 100+ messages...so, Happy Birthday, Shir!

Also health~ma to all who need it, especially Tim. And, as always, fuck cancer!


Steph L. - Aug 03, 2025 8:16:02 am PDT #8588 of 13121
That which does not kill you should RUN

Here's my onerous to-do list for this week that I'm posting here for accountability:

Make PT appointment for my defiant bad hip
Make mammogram appointment
Make colonoscopy appointment
Message OB/GYN (Tim's cancer is HPV positive, and I may need to be tested)
Follow up with PCP about Zepbound
Make haircut appointment
Continue to try super hard not to freak out


DavidS - Aug 03, 2025 9:41:19 am PDT #8589 of 13121
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Here's my onerous to-do list for this week that I'm posting here for accountability:

Phew, that's a lot. Can you put off the mammogram for a week or two?

Continue to try super hard not to freak out

Jacqueline used to reference herself in the way that The Tick's addressed Arthur ("You're an anxious little dude.")

She would just announce it with flat finality: "I am an anxious little dude."

Sun finally came out! Fuckin' yay!

Filthy hippies all strewn about Haight Street for the stupid Dead and Company shows. Literally, they are very dirty, smoking nonstop, notably stupid (as evidenced by every damn thing they say) and they are leaving trash everywhere.


Steph L. - Aug 03, 2025 9:55:25 am PDT #8590 of 13121
That which does not kill you should RUN

Phew, that's a lot. Can you put off the mammogram for a week or two?

Mostly I just want to get it scheduled. I can schedule it for a couple-few weeks out. Same with the colonoscopy.

She would just announce it with flat finality: "I am an anxious little dude."

That's super accurate for me. One uber-anxious little dude.


Tom Scola - Aug 03, 2025 10:52:21 am PDT #8591 of 13121
Where do you come from? Where do you go? What is your scene, baby? We just gotta know.

All the hugs in the world to (((Steph))).

Today was the nicest day of the summer we’ve had in NYC. I went and shot 2 rolls of film. 14K steps.

Also, this happened up the street from me this morning (no one was hurt).


Laura - Aug 03, 2025 11:02:09 am PDT #8592 of 13121
Our wings are not tired.

Here's my onerous to-do list for this week that I'm posting here for accountability:

That is quite a lot of adulting there. Get 'er done ~ma.

Yay for beautiful summer days! And yikes on the linky!! You have to wonder how many structures are unstable.

My son is all moved in. He shaved his very long beard into just a bit of short stash and goatee. It looks nice. His hair is longer than mine, not to mention thicker and prettier. Now we need to find something affordable for him in Florida. Not an easy task. Everything I find is a room in someone's house. We have three months to figure it out, but October isn't the best time to find something when everyone is heading south.