Zoe: My man would never fall for that. Wash: Most of my head wishes I had.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Jul 28, 2025 1:57:00 pm PDT #8500 of 9198
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

He was apparently very lucky to have the heart attack at the gym where they had a defibrillator and people know cpr.


lisah - Jul 28, 2025 2:02:40 pm PDT #8501 of 9198
Punishingly Intricate

I was thinking that might have been a good place for him to be, sj


sj - Jul 28, 2025 7:30:18 pm PDT #8502 of 9198
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thank you everyone. I’m home for the night. I’ll meet mom back at the hospital tomorrow.


Java cat - Jul 28, 2025 8:24:45 pm PDT #8503 of 9198
Not javachik

Glad your stepfather was able to get fast help, sj. Hurray on ejection being normal -- I had to look at up, Jen. I'd never heard of that one. Speaking of hearts, double yay! Best of health on the knee Sheryl. Whoa re the various KKK involvement.

Folks on Ozempic or another of the GLP1's -- Has anyone done a comparison of the various compounded options to emerge with a clear winner for purity and price? I've been clicking "interested" on IG and am flooded with solicitations for zepbound. The only one I'd heard of before is Noom, who has their tracking and coaching but now with GLP1. I feel exhausted by all the data and wish for a spreadsheet that I don't have to create.


Beverly - Jul 29, 2025 1:33:10 am PDT #8504 of 9198
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Laura, I dealt with my mom descending into dementia for several years--you have all my parent ~ma. Plus love and patience. And the same to you and your son.

SJ, all best thoughts to you and your family. It sounds like he's already out of the woods. Very lucky for it to happen among folks who knew their stuff and could care for him until he was in professional medical care.

Vortex, you made an indelible impression on our younger son, grandson's uncle. He sends a big grin and a hug back to you. Of course you make a wonderful impression on everybody--I miss you a whole lot.

Everybody else gets hugs--or elbow or fist bumps if hugs aren't welcome. We've had coolish weather--71F for the highs--over the weekend, and it's been so welcome. Up to 79F the next few days. Not Florida heat, nor any other place, probably. I'll whine and complain like it was 90F I'm so spoiled.


Calli - Jul 29, 2025 4:48:08 am PDT #8505 of 9198
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Recovery~ma for your dad, sj.

So, y’all know how I got that “voluntary” separation offer at work, and felt kinda bummed about it? I mean, I took it, because I figured the next step would be an involuntary separation demand, with less severance. Turns out it was a blessing in disguise. My entire department is getting the ax. Roles they can’t live without, like LMS admin, will get folded into other groups. But most people, including the department head, will probably be laid off. Three years from award winning unit to f—- off. I am friends, or at least work-friends with most of them, and I feel awful for them all.


-t - Jul 29, 2025 4:53:33 am PDT #8506 of 9198
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oof, Calli! I’m so sorry for your colleagues


JenP - Jul 29, 2025 5:57:39 am PDT #8507 of 9198

Oh, geez, Calli, that's terrible.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jul 29, 2025 9:47:00 am PDT #8508 of 9198
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Health~ma to your stepdad, sj.


DavidS - Jul 29, 2025 11:46:40 am PDT #8509 of 9198
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Glad you got out when you did, Calli.

Sending all the healthy vibes to your step-dad, sj.

The sun has finally broken through the gray skies (after more than a week) and it is very welcome to see.

I spent the morning with EM plowing through a pile of onerosity.

The problem with sending emails and texts is that they respond and you have more tasks to do. But things are getting done.

I'm finally forced to deal with the corroding Juliet balconies on the front of my building because a chunk fell off. Can't have ironwork falling on people. So my contractor is coming by today to remove some dangling bits, and we'll have to remove both balconies completely as they are a hazard.

Ultimately I'll put up some other decorative ironwork but this is more urgent.

Matilda is meeting with her academic counselor and I'm trying figure out how to pay her tuition directly out of her 529 account.