I just think you're freakin' out 'cause you have to fight someone prettier than you.

Dawn ,'The Killer In Me'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Jul 18, 2025 5:10:33 pm PDT #8339 of 9247
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Gary and I went to a concert Wed. night at Wolf Trap. It was a triple bill: Barenaked Ladies with Sugar Ray and Fastball. Serious late '90s vibe. It was hot and humid, punctuated by a nasty thunderstorm.(Outdoor venue, though we were in the pavilion so we only got some stray raindrops when the wind blew.) It was fun.


brenda m - Jul 19, 2025 6:23:57 am PDT #8340 of 9247
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh fun! We’re seeing BNL next week in Toronto.

I definitely struggle with over spending both food and money. I worked really hard for several years to pay down my credit cards, which was slow and painful but 100% worth it. Now I have them set to pay in full every month, even pulling money from savings if I have to. I paid off my car too, so I don’t have that hitting every month, which helps.

But I’m way too prone to just indulging and spending without much thought. Costco, Target (except not anymore), restaurants, flight upgrades, etc.


Laura - Jul 19, 2025 6:46:52 am PDT #8341 of 9247
Our wings are not tired.

Sending out joyous birthday wishes into the Buffista ether to esse (SA). May you feel the love and know that you are missed. We hope this is a wonderful day, followed by a year of delights.


Jessica - Jul 20, 2025 8:36:10 am PDT #8342 of 9247
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Why do college-bound kids need so much stuffffffffff :( :( :(

We are limiting our dorm shopping to essentials only and it's still. just. so. much. stuff.


Laura - Jul 20, 2025 10:28:47 am PDT #8343 of 9247
Our wings are not tired.

Almost as mind boggling as the notion that you have a college bound kid!


DavidS - Jul 20, 2025 11:36:50 am PDT #8344 of 9247
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Why do college-bound kids need so much stuffffffffff :( :( :(

Matilda has been shopping shopping shopping to make her dorm room perfect.

We have the great advantage though of being able to throw all of it in the back of the car and being at the front of her dorm room in less than five minutes.


Steph L. - Jul 20, 2025 3:21:16 pm PDT #8345 of 9247
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

My 2 college roommates who have kids who started college last year (not at the same school) said their kids actually packed and moved less than they (the parents) expected, because then their kids just ordered stuff online when they got to school, because it was easier. We were all briefly bewildered and then envious, since we all met in fall of 1989, when the internet existed, but not in an e-commerce way. I may not have even gotten an email address until after I graduated from college.


Jessica - Jul 21, 2025 5:12:48 am PDT #8346 of 9247
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Dylan and his roommate have set up a shared Google doc to make sure they don't end up with two of everything. Back in my day I didn't have any way of finding out who my roommate was or meeting them until we walked into the building!


lisah - Jul 21, 2025 6:14:02 am PDT #8347 of 9247
Punishingly Intricate

We definitely got information about our roommates ahead of time and could communicate with them. No shared google docs though.


meara - Jul 21, 2025 6:28:17 am PDT #8348 of 9247

I got info about my roommate ahead of time but I think we had all of one awkward phone call where we discussed who would bring/buy a fridge and that was about the extent of it. We may have gone in on a rug as well, once we got to school? Not sure. We didn’t get along super well (though not too horrible, I think we barely even ran into each other on campus after freshman year)