Also do I get more points for scandalizing my mother or my daughter with my outfit?

Take the two-fer for the win it is!

I’m seeing a lot of Girls just want to have Fundamental rights tshirts.

That makes me happy

Posting here because other places will result in family hearing this or people offering solutions or feeling bad around me and yall will just read and nod or eyeroll. Yall know I have a need to get stuff out/down when I’m in accomplish mode. Not quite a to do or done list, but similar

Budget crap is crappy but I did some stuff this week. Background is I am not financially disciplined and have substantial cc debt.

Took out money from low interest heloc to pay off highest interest cc. Saving $700 for the rest of this year.

Stopped monthly ach to ira to pay more each month on cc.

Took out enough from savings and heloc to pay July property taxes rather than putting any of it on cc (as I’ve done past couple of years). Saving approx $150/yr in interest.

Cancelled a streaming service and did more downloading of pics to close Flickr account. Savings will be a whopping $15-25 a month. Still.

I’m bad at this because (similar to weight stuff) it is slow progress. I like completing things, marking things off. So I’m making goals that I can mark complete, like close out highest card. Next month will be cancelling a card.

Thanks for the space to brain dump.

Financial discipline is hard to stick to and painful if you are successful. I hate that for all of us. But go you taking charge of what you can do!

And I just set up an auto payment of what I had been sending to ira to one of the cc.

Enough of that for the day.

Gold stars, msbelle. I am very neglectful of that aspect of adulting.

I have often thought of financial discipline and weight/calories as similar. And just how some folks have no trouble spending less than their means without even trying, while others have to budget carefully, and others can’t seem to not spend, just like eating. And some have more calories to spend (because their bigger or job is more active or whatever) or just don’t like to eat as much, etc. As someone who always overspent my calories but not my budget it fascinated me.

They do feel similar, meara! And both have completely unwarranted values of virtue and shame attached to them. And once you find yourself in a hole, whether yo dug it yourself or not, it is really hard to climb out of

Absolutely! If you get in a hole of debt and there’s interest or you get in a hole of weight and it makes it harder to work out or the insulin resistance makes you want more sugar or whatever, you’re in a hole!

The concert was so much fun! Cyndi Lauper was so energetic despite the fact that she was completely melting in the heat. I got a ton of compliments on my make up and outfit. Some were even while I was seated with my crutches hidden. So, I couldn’t even tell myself they were just being nice to the disabled lady. I didn’t realize how often I dismissed compliments I that way until I couldn’t last night and my brain short circuited a bit. Probably something to talk about with my therapist next week.