This isn't a come-on. I'm in a very serious relationship with a landscape architect.

Oliver ,'Conviction (1)'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - May 02, 2024 4:11:42 pm PDT #80 of 2648
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I do have to worry if a rambling Victorian full of aging, eccentric Buffistas is more of a "hilarity ensues" scenario or a "and then the murders began" scenario.

Porque no los dos? We don't have to be murdering each other, you know.


-t - May 02, 2024 4:14:33 pm PDT #81 of 2648
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, good point! Not necessarily a closed system


Jessica - May 02, 2024 4:48:02 pm PDT #82 of 2648
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I do have to worry if a rambling Victorian full of aging, eccentric Buffistas is more of a "hilarity ensues" scenario or a "and then the murders began" scenario.

Knives Out 3


Sheryl - May 02, 2024 5:33:56 pm PDT #83 of 2648
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I know I'm not going to be able to retire for another 10 years at least(barring any major medical issues) because of Mr. S. I'd like to see him graduate from high school, although right now I'd just like to get through 3rd grade.(He's having a lot of meltdowns at school, so we are realizing this is not the best fit for him)


JenP - May 02, 2024 5:34:42 pm PDT #84 of 2648

Yah, I was thinking, those are not necessarily mutually exclusive...


-t - May 02, 2024 6:20:38 pm PDT #85 of 2648
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Knives Out 3

Pink sparkly hearts


erikaj - May 02, 2024 6:39:13 pm PDT #86 of 2648
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

In a weird way, I feel like my life is happening backwards. like this could seem like a thirty-year retirement. Except, for not working? I am busy as hell. At 62, maybe I'll have a Chinese baby and publicist.


Calli - May 02, 2024 6:56:13 pm PDT #87 of 2648
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My parents both had pensions, which let them retire with some level of comfort and with really good health insurance. Both had years of cancer treatments and the costs were almost entirely covered. They didn’t leave a whole lot, but they never feared outliving what they had.

I would love a pension. Was it Reagan or Nixon who signed off on letting employers switch to 401ks? I mean, damn both of them for various reasons, but definitely damn the one who stuck us with the tender mercies of the stock market ruling our future well being.

However, I am a lifelong member of team soft and squishy, so at least I have that going for me.


Pix - May 02, 2024 7:01:08 pm PDT #88 of 2648
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I was actually coming in here to say that I'm using this report from one of our vendors that refers to expected inventory at the beginning of a period so my chart is full of columns labeled "TOTAL BOP" and that sounds like a much better time than it actually is

Unrelated to everything else, but I just learned that young Gen Z/elder Gen Alpha have redefined "bop" to mean "A name to call a female who gives head to anyone. They call them a bop because when they give head they bop there heads." NO. NO. WHAT.

My parents both had pensions, which let them retire with some level of comfort and with really good health insurance. Both had years of cancer treatments and the costs were almost entirely covered. They didn’t leave a whole lot, but they never feared outliving what they had.

Yep, this. It wouldn't have been enough to pay for assisted living, but it got Dad through 20 years of frugal retirement.


-t - May 02, 2024 7:15:58 pm PDT #89 of 2648
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

My dad ended up with a pension and a 401k and I am pretty darn glad of that. My parents also have good health insurance through Dad’s retirement arrangement. I don’t think he was much older than I am now when he retired, come to think of it. Huh.