I, for one, wasn't looking forward to starting my day with a slaughter. Which, really, just goes to show how much I've grown

Anya ,'Sleeper'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Jun 17, 2025 4:13:33 pm PDT #7785 of 8261
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy Birthday Cass!

Gary's mom is moving into an apartment in an independent living community. As a result, we now have some of her furniture in our house. We replaced our couch and loveseat in the living room with the couch from her living room and a piano. (Nobody in our house plays piano.) The cats are confused...


Consuela - Jun 17, 2025 6:29:57 pm PDT #7786 of 8261
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Happy birthday cass!

I am ON VACATION. And happily I have dog care lined up (do not think about the cost!), and I'm really looking forward to being mostly offline for the next few weeks.


Steph L. - Jun 17, 2025 6:54:04 pm PDT #7787 of 8261
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Happy Birthday, Cass!

Consuela, enjoy every bit of your vacation!


Cass - Jun 17, 2025 7:17:07 pm PDT #7788 of 8261
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I am ON VACATION.

Enjoy! Being offline sounds good to me.


sj - Jun 17, 2025 8:58:51 pm PDT #7789 of 8261
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay for vacation, Consuela!


Cashmere - Jun 17, 2025 11:12:24 pm PDT #7790 of 8261
Now tagless for your comfort.

I've skipped and skimmed but had to check to see if Nilly and Shir were doing okay.

DH found a new job in Richmond, VA (he's living down there for now).
Robin has been moved into a new apartment in Chicago for her last year at DePaul.
Oliver is recovering nicely from top surgery and home for the summer from college.
I'm still angry that this is the worst timeline.

Be safe, buffistas.


JenP - Jun 18, 2025 5:41:10 am PDT #7791 of 8261

So good to see you, Cash, and hear news of the family. Agree about the timeline, of course. I'm glad your DH found something, and I hope he's doing OK in Richmond. That is... not an easy commute for either of you.


Laura - Jun 18, 2025 8:10:28 am PDT #7792 of 8261
Our wings are not tired.

Have a blissful vacation, Consuela!

Crazy to think of Robin and Oliver being in college. My own kids being in their 30s is one thing, but it is shocking to see these little kids aren't so little anymore.

Richmond is a pretty area geographically. It was rough politically when I lived there, but my understanding is that it is much more progressive now.


sj - Jun 18, 2025 10:23:05 am PDT #7793 of 8261
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I can’t believe Robin and Oliver are so grown up! Will you be moving to VA, Cash?

This is the first day of summer vacation that ltc and I were home alone together. We watched some tv, but she’s quickly running out of age appropriate geeky shows to watch, read a bit, and made French toast for lunch. And I made her help me with some chores. Now she’s out with her grandparents for a couple of hours.


Steph L. - Jun 18, 2025 10:35:54 am PDT #7794 of 8261
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm hoping that if I make a post grumbling about this, it'll be resolved:

My second carpal tunnel surgery is tomorrow. The surgical center has this weird policy where the patient is scheduled for a surgery date like a month out, but NOT a surgery time. They wait until the day before the scheduled surgery to call the patients and tell them what time the surgery will be. This is the weirdest fucking thing ever. I didn't like it with my right hand and I don't like it with my left hand.

Anyway, it's 1:35 the day before my alleged surgery and they haven't called me yet, and I'm getting twitchy about it. Just let me know what time to be there, you weirdos!