You got all kinds of learnin' and you made me look the fool without tryin', and yet here I am with a gun to your head. That's 'cause I got people with me. People who trust each other, who do for each other, and ain't always lookin' for the advantage.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - May 24, 2024 11:05:48 pm PDT #716 of 2704
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

She would make a most excellent Tilly. Huzzah!

(The most recent amazing race has made question what it says about a society that lets a word like huzzah fall into disuse. Nothing good I’m sure.)


Calli - May 25, 2024 4:24:17 am PDT #717 of 2704
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I like Tilly as a girl dog name. Bix would work better as a cat name, although I’m sure I’d change it to Bixie almost immediately.


lisah - May 25, 2024 6:28:00 am PDT #718 of 2704
Punishingly Intricate

She’s gorgeous, ‘suela!!! Congrats to you both!


JenP - May 25, 2024 6:30:56 am PDT #719 of 2704

Tilly is a fab, name and character. She looks sweet. Congratulations to you both!

Lordy, do I need to hydrate better today. I kept waking myself up every hour last night with leg cramps. Ugh. And I'm sure I'll be just delightful all day after that kind of sleep. If you see me in here, ask me when the last time I had a sip was. Sheesh.

Wherever you're going, meara, I hope it's a good time.


smonster - May 25, 2024 6:50:24 am PDT #720 of 2704
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Spike's Saga (to date)

Oh, that is totally excellent.

Way to go, Tom! Lord, I hope it isn’t a nightmare getting a new NC license.

What a pretty doggie, Consuela. I hope she’s a good fit for you.

Had a great day yesterday with errands and friend time and two! New! Bras! I got an every day “nude” (actually a medium brown) and a serious sports bra in highlighter yellow. The latter was on sale for half off, so the damage wasn’t too bad.

I realized last that that while I knew that I flare my ribs and that it was contributing to back pain, I did not realize it was worsened by wearing a band size too large and old, stretched-out bras. It’s humbling when you realize you are doing the thing that you are absolute convinced you aren’t doing. Been wearing a 36 for, oh, decades. Because of a professional fitting!


JenP - May 25, 2024 7:01:20 am PDT #721 of 2704

A good bra fitting is priceless. I'm not sure I've ever had a really great one, but... I've heard tell. Congrats!


Steph L. - May 25, 2024 7:05:50 am PDT #722 of 2704
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I have a new puppy!

Yay! She's adorable!

Mariner is a great name but I’d end up calling her Marnie because three syllables and I’m lazy lol.

I call Murderbiscuit "Boo" more than half the time because 4 syllables is a bit much.


javachik - May 25, 2024 9:07:32 am PDT #723 of 2704
Our wings are not tired.

All beloveds are “boo” most of the time, right??


Steph L. - May 25, 2024 9:14:28 am PDT #724 of 2704
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

One time, Tim called me "Boo" and I laughed — because I thought it was cute! it was a laugh of delight! — but he never did it again.


meara - May 25, 2024 9:20:30 am PDT #725 of 2704

Aww. The way pet names are twisted and turned cracks me up. I call my dog Goofus a lot. The friend who is dog sitting him bought him shoes and it is cracking me up watching her instagram stories.

I’m on the Oregon coast, with friends and their family. It was such a long drive yesterday, we didn’t get in until close to midnight. Hoping the drive back is much faster at the end of the weekend!

Jen I do not recommend the leg cramps! Drink up!

Smonster well fitting underpinnings are important indeed. I just tried the Reddit bra that fits calculator and the size seems improbable but I may try it next time I’m shopping and see if it actually works.